Its not that deep it's been a common excuse used by cheating men for ages

ok I aint say all that

but I did

THAT sounds like projecting mam

but shawty simply saying (in a provocative way because clicks) that if you wanna see someone you would make time for them, aint that far fetched

You know I like to instigate but yeah it really isn't that deep

not trying to be an a****** but your posts have been like that for a minute hope you're doing alright

Like how?

Don't wanna post something like this publicly but I remember you as a dope poster so its all good

describe food as "Tasty"

Dm then I don't get it

I'm sure she's attempting to get at ghosting or people falling back and not being honest about it. The issue is too often do women legitimately get mad at dudes who forreal get busy with work. Which is insane to me because of the times of financial stress we're living in.

I've had women flake on me the moment I've said "Work has me all over" because they took it as me lying. Like nah you goofy and impatient broad, you got me taking you out on dates 3-4 nights a week and I had to call out for some of those nights. I gotta work more now to make back money in order to start taking you out like I was before.

Niggas gotta work in order to afford dating. That's a simple reality. Not every nigga falling back on "Work got me busy" is tryna dip on a woman. Most times niggas is actually being straight up. If the woman ain't tryna wait around for someone being the regular responsible working adult that's on them.

Then it goes to the We used to talk all day every day, now you hardly ever say good morning or good night because of "work" Which again leads back to...WE ARE WORKING MORE meaning we have less time to ourselves.

Been through this kinda s*** too often, and I promise no matter how transparent you are about it, it still ain't gonna be enough for some women. It's so important to find one who lives in reality and understands people got lives outside of just them, and also has their own s*** going on.

And here comes the projection...

Not a man and I never cheated I don't see how that could be true

.....not once did I imply that you are a man.

Woosh

I didn't say you did though

Her tweet was worded so simply that it initially seemed like yet another ridiculous tweet of women complaining about the most basic thing a man could do, but the more I thought about it that isn’t the case at all

She’s specifically talking about men who after they f*** and start talking to/dating a woman they suddenly have work or being busy as a roundabout reason for not putting in effort…the same effort they weren’t too busy to put in so they could get the coochie lol

Like niggas really do be busy but they also choose to fight tooth and nail despite being busy to get p****, then once they get it there’s no consistency. And I get how that would be annoying as a woman cause they should be upfront or just straight cut em off after f***ing instead of being a p**** and stringing it along then using the busy excuse. Cause if being that busy was as much of a limitation as some of these dudes say it is - they wouldn’t be talking to these women in the first place, thus tweets like this couldn’t exist

I feel like she was better off just talking about the energy shift after hooking up then cause how she initially worded the tweet was vague as hell and made her look like those kinda women who demand everything be about them all the time.

Issa reason why there are people "missing her point" and that's because the point she was attempting to make wasn't present in the first place.

Yeah I get this, she worded it in a way where only people who’ve experienced this would know what she’s talking about lol. It definitely sounds like a demanding/limiting men thing for most people who might not know about that type of thing firsthand which is her fault

These b****es got issues mehn.

@op add crying at your wedding anytime other than the vows

Please don’t bring out the misogyny in me

Yeah don't feel so nice, huh?

This one got me

We can’t read books now