I dont think women and men really have different libidos or anything, when lilly went into heat (she was too young to get fixed) she was meowHOWLING sticking her ass up, wiping it on the floor. it was insane, none stop. It’s like, women get super h**** and lonely too. the whole loser thing was started by a women.

But there isnt that pressure put on them by other men to have like multiple sexual partners and stuff. then u throw power dynamics on top of it. its a s*** show

but truly i have no idea thats just my guess I formed from looking at my cat being h**** so thats how much weight ppl should put on my opinion lol

Probably yeah for dudes I think it's probably like they are putting value on how much s***they have so if they have no s***they feel like there's something very wrong with them or with society that needs to be fixed

If a girl was to look at s***that way I feel like many would feel as though they were a s*** or something. It's like the opposite ya

yes exactly!!

Then that makes it so it's harder for guys to get s***
Where as if a girl wants to be an active s***haver guys are like waiting because of that

yeah exactly. when ppl should just do what they like and live and let live. if u wanna be ace like kodak, thats great. u wanna ride the bang bus like bmass? thats great. it just has no bearing on your worth or character. for both men and women.

no need to internalize these perceptions against you by judgmental people and let it cause you to mistreat others

and also I think people should be able to have security in themsleves to think critically about why people dont like them, if they want to be more sexually active and arent able to be.

you have to think about how you treat people, ways you can maybe be healthier, be considerate of how you present yourself infront of others. and be comfortable enough to reflect honestly, without blaming others for it. but also not be hateful towards yourself.

theres a confidence in finding flaws in yourself and trying to fix them best you can. confidence isnt just thinking youre perfect.

Guys always come to the weirdest conclusions about why too especially those weird losers guys

They r like "my chin is shaped slightly wrong or I don't make millions of dollars"

When I have known some broke funny looking guys who were plenty sexually active tbh u just have to be cool

The guy I knew who had the most s***like trimmed grass for a living and had a lisp and was goofy looking

He was just extremely cool and fun to be around

yeah 100%. its like psychosis without being in psychosis its so delusional. You dont have to be supermodel, rich, any of that. you just gotta put yourself out there to meet people, connect with people who fw you and be cool.

also the weird conclusions is like that meme where its like
1980s: you want to f*** a toaster. nobody around you f***s a toaster, you forget about it and realize later it was retarded

2020s: you want to f*** a toaster, you find a group of people online who also f*** toasters and you become a toaster f***er

yeah for sure!
thats how it is!!

He also sold d**** though which could be slightly related

But he was also just really fun

he sounds fun to me i like him already

He was bisexual and in an open relationship which his girlfriend hated

Very fascinating guy

He sold mushrooms and weed

He was me and my brothers roommate for a bit but he always had these unplanned parties so it became too much

hahaha sounds like somebody id f*** so he got me knocked off already.

see how easy it is other guys??

oh ya thats way too much.
sketchy too, ppl knowing u sell d**** and u throwing parties at the place u live is like asking to be robbed and stuff.

Well it was very small scale

He wasn't like a d*** dealer he just sold some d****

And the people were mostly weird artsy kids

oh ok that’s different yeah

If he was selling like crack and inviting them over to a shindig I would have immediately put my foot down

i wouldnt be keen on throwing a crack shindig either

lilly loves to rip up sheets of paper. and when i was doing my portfolio tonight she actually shredded a sheet lol the floor is covered in cat confetti

What you are saying may still have merit though because we did have our house broken into and all of my brother's weed was stolen and nothing else

yeah, i didnt mean like a movie style robbery. just like someone breaking in and stealing the weed, or just casually going up to the guy and being like give us weed or we will beat u up or something. or searching the house during the party and stealing stuff.

But it also could be a 100% coincidence, people break into houses and just rummage thru until they find something valuable then leave.

They flipped our table and stole my brother's weed and nothing else

We had game consoles and other valuables still left

It was odd