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  • Smacked Voodoo

    There is a way to escape it. Freeze your credit and tell that mortgage lender to f*** off.

  • 0 🫪
    Jun 22, 2021
    Oak

    I don’t even want to be home anymore. She doesn’t care about the logistics. She’s thinking about how big her room can be and which furniture to buy. A down payment is her last worry. The mortgage lender is going to call back tomorrow with another estimate too. There’s no escaping this s*** f***

    As others have said this person getting you quotes just wants to make money off of a commission

    These are not your friends

    Make this clear to your mother. It'd be like a car salesman "looking out for you"

    Also she needs to know if somehow this does proceed, that you'd be the OWNER and she'd be a Tennant

    Once you leave for college your entire dynamic was going to change no matter what

  • plants 🌻
    Jun 22, 2021
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    I'm once again telling you that you should go no contact with your family

  • OP
    Jun 22, 2021
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    plants

    I'm once again telling you that you should go no contact with your family

    I would think my grandmother would say something but no. She is excited too like wtf.

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Smacked Voodoo

    "It's his credit, so it's his responsibility"

    Not allowing your mother with a credit score of 480 to buy a $300K house with your credit sounds extremely responsible.

    I’m not advocating for that

    I said if that’s what it’s gotta be then he has to prepare himself

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    And I thought my dad was a d*** for putting the cable bill in my name

  • Jun 22, 2021

    What is your mom going to do if you dispute this and argue for something more reasonable?

    Y'all both just gonna be homeless and mad?

  • plants 🌻
    Jun 22, 2021
    Oak

    I would think my grandmother would say something but no. She is excited too like wtf.

    Chalk it up and make ya own family

  • Yeah you need to let your mom know that it's apartment or bust.

    Sell what you need to sell around the house for space and make it work.

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Birdie

    He’s a dependent his income is hers and this also appliesto finances

    He technically can’t even set up a bank account without her

    I think you can claim an independent so long as they’re making less than a certain amount

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Okay jokes aside - how are you getting approved for a 300k house just based on good credit score? No bank in the right mind would give a high schooler that clearance. Do you have like a f*** ton of money saved up?

    Good credit is not hard at all, it’s having good credit when you’re spending a lot & paying back that same amount in a timely manner.

    I’m calling cap until further notice

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    hahahaha get f***ed OP

    I'll give you a couple bucks if I see ya on the street

  • Jun 23, 2021
    WESTSIDE

    @op Any mortgage lender encouraging your mother to use your credit to close a mortgage then refinance after a year when her credit score is 480 is on some shady s***. They know she isn’t likely to be able to maintain the payments in the long run.

    Without a sizable down payment, her monthly payments are going to be high. They will also make her pay for mortgage insurance on top of her monthly payments. This is just a really bad idea. I know it’s your mother, but you need to say no. Doesn’t matter how she or anyone in her ear takes it.

    Yeah the main hustle of the housing industry to make people take out mortgages, the worst thing a lender wants to hear is you have cash 🤢

    30 year mortage = 30 years of steady income

  • Jun 23, 2021
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    flizzy

    Then rent an apartment for her until she figures it out. Cheaper than a house.

    Not necessarily.... plus he can sell a house

  • AR15 💯
    Jun 23, 2021

    Yea op you need an apt

    My family lived in apts til about 5 years ago.

  • Jun 23, 2021
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    Tyler1999

    And I thought my dad was a d*** for putting the cable bill in my name

    I mean if he’s responsible and pays on time that will only benefit your credit.

  • CLB PRADA

    Okay jokes aside - how are you getting approved for a 300k house just based on good credit score? No bank in the right mind would give a high schooler that clearance. Do you have like a f*** ton of money saved up?

    Good credit is not hard at all, it’s having good credit when you’re spending a lot & paying back that same amount in a timely manner.

    I’m calling cap until further notice

    Honestly it reads like a copypasta but I've seen something similar to this happen with one of my roommates in college. He couldn't afford the next school year and dropped out. Naturally he been living at home and working in a warehouse. He does have a girlfriend and a kid now so like...maybe he's doing alright?

  • Jun 23, 2021
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    GhostDeini718

    I mean if he’s responsible and pays on time that will only benefit your credit.

    Yeah I moved out at 18, after he passed and they hit me with a $400 debt he was not responsible

  • Jun 23, 2021
    CLB PRADA

    Okay jokes aside - how are you getting approved for a 300k house just based on good credit score? No bank in the right mind would give a high schooler that clearance. Do you have like a f*** ton of money saved up?

    Good credit is not hard at all, it’s having good credit when you’re spending a lot & paying back that same amount in a timely manner.

    I’m calling cap until further notice

    That’s also true

    I had a 750 credit score at 19 but would have never gotten a loan for a house

    I was getting denied for certain cards for being too low income

    The mortgage lender could be very shady probably but after 2008 this industry became very regulated

  • Jun 23, 2021
    Tyler1999

    Yeah I moved out at 18, after he passed and they hit me with a $400 debt he was not responsible

    I’m that case yeah, but if you’re a responsible parent and want to help your child to start credit score going, then it’s not a bad idea.

  • Jun 23, 2021
    red eagle

    hahahaha get f***ed OP

    I'll give you a couple bucks if I see ya on the street

    post and avy lmaooo

  • Jun 23, 2021

    Someone call Dave Ramsey

  • AR15 💯
    Jun 23, 2021
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    Oak

    I don’t even want to be home anymore. She doesn’t care about the logistics. She’s thinking about how big her room can be and which furniture to buy. A down payment is her last worry. The mortgage lender is going to call back tomorrow with another estimate too. There’s no escaping this s*** f***

    You not getting the loan without showing the down payment in your bank account

    Are you co signing for your mother or are you going to be the main borrower on the loan? No way you get approved to be main borrower working part time.

  • AR15 💯
    Jun 23, 2021
    CLB PRADA

    Okay jokes aside - how are you getting approved for a 300k house just based on good credit score? No bank in the right mind would give a high schooler that clearance. Do you have like a f*** ton of money saved up?

    Good credit is not hard at all, it’s having good credit when you’re spending a lot & paying back that same amount in a timely manner.

    I’m calling cap until further notice

    Has to be 🧢

  • OP
    Jun 23, 2021
    AR15

    You not getting the loan without showing the down payment in your bank account

    Are you co signing for your mother or are you going to be the main borrower on the loan? No way you get approved to be main borrower working part time.

    That’s why I don’t understand why the mortgage lender sounded so confident. He pretty much stated we will both be listed as the owners

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