You were wrong for bottling up the fact that the jokes made you uncomfortable and brought it out in a confrontational way. If you didn’t like it you tell him the first time, second time max if you let him slide once. It seemed like he’s been doing it for awhile so he obviously didn’t realize he was doing anything wrong because you never told him as much, so to bring it up when he’s drunk and being essentially kicked out of your house is terrible timing on that.
He’s obviously dumb as s*** and did a lot wrong but you already know that.
Your bro really didn’t do much wrong. He’s not in the room so he’s never noticed the jokes according to you. He might’ve taken his bf’s side as opposed to yours but man he’s an 18 y/o with what you’re saying is his first bf. He’s gonna be hooked and possessive you can’t be surprised by this. Go apologize for your timing about bringing up the gay jokes issue and tell him you should’ve dealt with it before that. Tell him you don’t like that he took his boyfriend’s side and that he should make sure to not give his bf too long of a leash.
Being petty and ignoring your brother now just gonna alienate him more, you’re the older brother, be the bigger man
I’ll apologize to him for throwing out the gay comment thing in the heat of the moment but he needs to come to his senses too. I’m not putting up with this nigga disrespecting everyone in my family. Smashing empty bottles in my driveway. Gettin the cops called to my crib.
I’m not getting on my knees begging my brother for forgiveness cuz I didn’t do anything wrong. I’ll apologize once but that’s at. Apologizing when you’re not wrong is not petty or immature. I ain’t a people pleaser
I’ll apologize to him for throwing out the gay comment thing in the heat of the moment but he needs to come to his senses too. I’m not putting up with this nigga disrespecting everyone in my family. Smashing empty bottles in my driveway. Gettin the cops called to my crib.
I’m not getting on my knees begging my brother for forgiveness cuz I didn’t do anything wrong. I’ll apologize once but that’s at. Apologizing when you’re not wrong is not petty or immature. I ain’t a people pleaser
Multiple people can be in the wrong
You are in the wrong imo, just maybe not as much as others
Multiple people can be in the wrong
You are in the wrong imo, just maybe not as much as others
I’m 100% in the wrong the least imo
Your brothers boyfriend sounds annoying as f***, but you should have told him off with the flirting immediately. He shouldn't be allowed in the house anymore IMO. Being drunk isn't an excuse to start a bunch of s*** and threaten you, kid honestly deserved a two piece. I wished a lived in a area as liberal as yours lmao, so many parts of this story are unheard of to me.
I’ll apologize to him for throwing out the gay comment thing in the heat of the moment but he needs to come to his senses too. I’m not putting up with this nigga disrespecting everyone in my family. Smashing empty bottles in my driveway. Gettin the cops called to my crib.
I’m not getting on my knees begging my brother for forgiveness cuz I didn’t do anything wrong. I’ll apologize once but that’s at. Apologizing when you’re not wrong is not petty or immature. I ain’t a people pleaser
Didn’t he bring it up, on some you only kicking me out cause I’m gay
Didn’t he bring it up, on some you only kicking me out cause I’m gay
Yup, he started playing the gay card which is total bs so I hit him with it
Multiple people can be in the wrong
You are in the wrong imo, just maybe not as much as others
Wrong for what? If someone ain't respecting the rules of your house you can tell them to leave. OP did nothing wrong. That Parker dude wylin. Also the neighbors wylin too for calling the police.
Op is 100% not in the wrong
You can't just get drunk and act an ass at other people's house
Wrong for what? If someone ain't respecting the rules of your house you can tell them to leave. OP did nothing wrong. That Parker dude wylin. Also the neighbors wylin too for calling the police.
He’s not wrong at all for telling the guy to leave. I agree with you wholeheartedly there.
He’s wrong for clearly having an issue with the jokes and comments the guy was making and not saying anything or indicating he had an issue. He chose to finally address it when the guy was drunk and amped up bc he was being kicked out of the house (even if it was justified, guy’s obviously still gonna be mad about it). There’s no reason to have done that in that situation and it escalated things.
If he had an issue with it all along, the best time to say something was when it first happened, and at this point he would’ve been much better suited waiting until the bf was sober and calmed down to say “yo you been making these jokes and I been letting it slide but now I’m gonna tell you I’m not cool with it and you should stop”.
Terrible timing on OP’s part
He’s not wrong at all for telling the guy to leave. I agree with you wholeheartedly there.
He’s wrong for clearly having an issue with the jokes and comments the guy was making and not saying anything or indicating he had an issue. He chose to finally address it when the guy was drunk and amped up bc he was being kicked out of the house (even if it was justified, guy’s obviously still gonna be mad about it). There’s no reason to have done that in that situation and it escalated things.
If he had an issue with it all along, the best time to say something was when it first happened, and at this point he would’ve been much better suited waiting until the bf was sober and calmed down to say “yo you been making these jokes and I been letting it slide but now I’m gonna tell you I’m not cool with it and you should stop”.
Terrible timing on OP’s part
Parker a full 18 year old person he shouldn't have to be told that he's doing something wrong
Parker a full 18 year old person he shouldn't have to be told that he's doing something wrong
Diff people got diff comfort zones and borders
I’m sure there are other people Parker has told those types of jokes to that had no problem with it
If OP had a problem with it he should’ve said something a lot earlier, not waited until the literal worst moment possible to bring it up
He’s not wrong at all for telling the guy to leave. I agree with you wholeheartedly there.
He’s wrong for clearly having an issue with the jokes and comments the guy was making and not saying anything or indicating he had an issue. He chose to finally address it when the guy was drunk and amped up bc he was being kicked out of the house (even if it was justified, guy’s obviously still gonna be mad about it). There’s no reason to have done that in that situation and it escalated things.
If he had an issue with it all along, the best time to say something was when it first happened, and at this point he would’ve been much better suited waiting until the bf was sober and calmed down to say “yo you been making these jokes and I been letting it slide but now I’m gonna tell you I’m not cool with it and you should stop”.
Terrible timing on OP’s part
I don't know where or how you were raised to think you can sit up in someone's home, get drunk, disrespect the rules of the hosts, and make inappropriate comments to the host and say the host is wrong for wanting them gone and having issues with what was said.
It doesn't matter when they decide to speak up about it. Act like you got some goddamn sense in someone else's home.