You want us to be "normal" but you also want us to introduce our sexuality to every person we meet or what?
no one is saying that. and if they are they're being unreasonable.
the moment you consider cheating on your gf that you've been thru thick and thin with, with another man. is the moment you need to have an honest albeit difficult conversation.
most straight women are homophobic and don't want a bi man. its a hard situation to be in but the moment you start cheating you throw all of that "she could've handled this better" s*** out the window because there is always a better choice to be made over cheating. be fr man.
not everyone has to take the high road when you cash in your "i'm human i make mistakes" coupon.
that being said Happy Pride Month.
Went through his iPad and found out he’d being seeing other dudes.
Now she’s outed it all over social media, he’s here crying and s*** his mental health was already shaky
damn
They both wrong.
He wrong for using her as a beard and doing stuff behind her back obviously. If he was having mixed feelings then he should have broke it off and explored those feelings, or told her and let her make the decision if she still wanted to be with him even with his sexuality.
She also wrong for sinking even lower at doing that to him. She could have took the high road and just broke it off, and even cussed him out whatever, but nope she had to go be vindictive and take it to a whole different level.
At this point, best thing for both parties is to completely break everything off including any forms of communication, and move on with their lives.
That’s what someone meant when they said beards in 2023
They’ll be alright
He should know that when he betrays someone’s trust like that he has to accept whatever comes with that, and ol girl has to control her emotions and not be so vindictive
He can still win this
He has to f*** her father or something
why does this thread even have 23 pages
People like us
And also mfs prolly were arguing
People gonna switch up their moral values and condone all the cheating because….. nvm lol
Niggas so f***in weird
They will be like „oh its not our time yet to be married“ 😭 and are 35 posting on ktt

Like yeah obviously cheating is bad but outing a person publicly like this can have extremely dangerous repercussions
I’m reading page 12 so far and I gotta say man…this thread is really a wild ride. S*** just went up x1000 on page 10 tho it took a turn
no one is saying that. and if they are they're being unreasonable.
the moment you consider cheating on your gf that you've been thru thick and thin with, with another man. is the moment you need to have an honest albeit difficult conversation.
most straight women are homophobic and don't want a bi man. its a hard situation to be in but the moment you start cheating you throw all of that "she could've handled this better" s*** out the window because there is always a better choice to be made over cheating. be fr man.
not everyone has to take the high road when you cash in your "i'm human i make mistakes" coupon.
that being said Happy Pride Month.
DING DING DING
no one is saying that. and if they are they're being unreasonable.
the moment you consider cheating on your gf that you've been thru thick and thin with, with another man. is the moment you need to have an honest albeit difficult conversation.
most straight women are homophobic and don't want a bi man. its a hard situation to be in but the moment you start cheating you throw all of that "she could've handled this better" s*** out the window because there is always a better choice to be made over cheating. be fr man.
not everyone has to take the high road when you cash in your "i'm human i make mistakes" coupon.
that being said Happy Pride Month.
The discussion I had with that user haf nothing to do with cheating.
It was about should a person tell their partner their sexuality.
I clearly said no. If most straight women do not want to date a bisexual man then that is homophobia. That is putting a stamp on a guy because he f***ed other dudes in the past. It is that exact sentiment of never returning when coming out that makes it so difficult to many people.
At the same time a person does not owe anyone a detailed explanation of their sexual history. If they decided to be faithfully in a commited relationship it is their own business to tell their partner about it just like it is for a straight guy if he tells his girl about his exs
That is my point.
You’re showing your partner your dog post?
No?
Thats what i thought lol
I wouldn't mind showing anyone that because it was pretty obvious I was joking
You disagree with what I'm saying and you don't even address it, straight to ad hominems
I wouldn't mind showing anyone that because it was pretty obvious I was joking
You disagree with what I'm saying and you don't even address it, straight to ad hominems
What Eminem gotta do with this lol
I dont think the straights understand how hard it is for most to come out but also i dont think the gays understand how much most women put into relationships
On one hand a mans identity and lifestyle is outted before its time and can have repercussions from bigots while also making him and in turn other gay men look like pieces of s***.
On the otherhand the girl probably now doesnt feel like she is "woman" enough, wasted how ever time of her life in a lie & was against her will for someone else's cover up that was just using her for an image.
I dont think the woman is responsible for his feelings anymore though as he clearly wasnt responsible with hers. As i said before - you can control how you act but you cant control how others react.
In terms of relationships he is more in the wrong. In terms of socially she is more in the wrong, but I dont think its on her to care about him anymore as he clearly didnt care about her (at least enough).
You dont waste a persons life and use them unconsensually. Her life was a lie and wasted in more way than one & now looks like a fool socially & is hurt emotionally.
If he was straight - a similar outcome would of likely occured. Albeit not with the sexuality threats nor an identity being outted.
Dont involve others without their consent. At least be "man" enough to look like a "single loser". You cant have it both ways where everybody will be happy. Although I understand why & get it, overall its still incredibly selfish imo. Him being gay or bi doesnt absolve him of that just like it was a lesbian woman and a straight man - to me.
You hurt someone you have to deal with the outcome. Simple as.