Some girls will try to friendzone you but still want the benefits of a relationship (like taking them out for food/drinks/shopping) with no benefits for you in return
cold lick but its how some play the game
taking them out for food and drinks is the benefits of a relationship? Lmaoo bruh you aint ever go out for food with your homies whether male or female??
wasn’t talking about her specifically. when they start time wasting with no intention of something happening it’s so draining 🤦
Youre not obligated to f*** someone after a date lmao. She didnt feel OP and let him know that. What time was wasted?
taking them out for food and drinks is the benefits of a relationship? Lmaoo bruh you aint ever go out for food with your homies whether male or female??
I have but thats with people I’m genuinely friends with. Some of these girls know how to finesse you quick dawg thats all I’m sayin
Bro I get you. I’m just saying there’s no way for them to know unless you state it before hand or it comes up along the way but a lot of people are going to offer friendship.
Like some dudes are like, I’m not making friends with guys that won’t elevate me or give me something I need, and treat it like networking. Even if they like the person they would rather like them and be able to get something. Some people don’t. We human so a lot of people want friendships or offer out of habit. That’s why I’m a bit confused as to why your surprised, or why you think it’s strange for her to offer. She has no understanding of where you’re at until it comes up. It’s not on her, or you, it’s just how communication goes. Not saying you can’t only wanna f***. We only have so much time n energy. But she’s like, not in the wrong here. I don’t think it’s “dumb ass s***”, a lot of ppl wants friends and don’t want to f*** you. Once you said that’s not what u want then y’all split but dumb? U get me?
Bro I get you. I’m just saying there’s no way for them to know unless you state it before hand or it comes up along the way but a lot of people are going to offer friendship.
Like some dudes are like, I’m not making friends with guys that won’t elevate me or give me something I need, and treat it like networking. Even if they like the person they would rather like them and be able to get something. Some people don’t. We human so a lot of people want friendships or offer out of habit. That’s why I’m a bit confused as to why your surprised, or why you think it’s strange for her to offer. She has no understanding of where you’re at until it comes up. It’s not on her, or you, it’s just how communication goes. Not saying you can’t only wanna f***. We only have so much time n energy. But she’s like, not in the wrong here. I don’t think it’s “dumb ass s***”, a lot of ppl wants friends and don’t want to f*** you. Once you said that’s not what u want then y’all split but dumb? U get me?
This pretty much it
Being a dude without a car I can relate to the struggle lol
I got into a fight with a b**** off bumble literally 5 min into it cause she came thru & I asked her to take me somewhere
little did the stupid b\*\*\*\* knew wat she missed out on that night smh
Good honest exchange from both parties. Wouldn't call her dumb though just where she's at
u real as f***
Being a dude without a car I can relate to the struggle lol
I got into a fight with a b**** off bumble literally 5 min into it cause she came thru & I asked her to take me somewhere
little did the stupid b\*\*\*\* knew wat she missed out on that night smh
“What she missed out on”
Meanwhile she was getting d***ed down 💀💀
Reasonable message from her you seem like a lunatic
They both just expressed what they expected from their relationship
yall stay on some dumb s***
must be exhausting fr to view every relationship with a woman this transactionally
Being a dude without a car I can relate to the struggle lol
I got into a fight with a b**** off bumble literally 5 min into it cause she came thru & I asked her to take me somewhere
little did the stupid b\*\*\*\* knew wat she missed out on that night smh
y’all niggas killing me
man yall miserable in this section, bet its people ITT with a whip but no dates tho
I got away with not having a whip for the longest time and mans still got busy, unfortunately in OP's case she just didn't f*** with you
They geeked as hell OP struck out thats lame as hell
Being a dude without a car I can relate to the struggle lol
I got into a fight with a b**** off bumble literally 5 min into it cause she came thru & I asked her to take me somewhere
little did the stupid b\*\*\*\* knew wat she missed out on that night smh
Yea nah id cop a uber before i ask a woman to take me somewhere😭😭😭 esp if we just met
hmm it's a tough one, cuz it could either be her not being ready, her maybe not being interested or she wants to test you to see how much u want her. It depends on the signals she sends. I personally don't chase girls that don't show any interest but I've heard about a lot of guys who do and it works for them, so I guess it's just me being weak when it comes to this
Thanks for trying though. I can give her space all she wants but I ain't waiting on nobody either. I'll continue like I used no chasin' but focus on my career/personal growth.
All jokes aside, this.
She lost when she texted you the the 3 “???”s. Plus her saying you need a car coming off mad materialistic (it could not be, she could genuinely be allergic to buses, but it seems like it is).
Bro WHAT???? How this comment have 9 likes too???
How the f*** is a chick saying she don’t wanna date someone without a car materialistic??
Being a dude without a car I can relate to the struggle lol
I got into a fight with a b**** off bumble literally 5 min into it cause she came thru & I asked her to take me somewhere
little did the stupid b\*\*\*\* knew wat she missed out on that night smh
Wow this thread really brought out the sleazeballs lmao
“So I know we just met but ima need you to run me to the laundromat so I can do my laundry and then over to Walmart quick and then depending on how much you show that you’re into me, I’ll let you take me to this dope Chinese restaurant so I can grab myself some food. Oh you got an extra $10 I can borrow?”
Being a dude without a car I can relate to the struggle lol
I got into a fight with a b**** off bumble literally 5 min into it cause she came thru & I asked her to take me somewhere
little did the stupid b\*\*\*\* knew wat she missed out on that night smh
Bumble: aka Uber with p**** on the side
Bro WHAT???? How this comment have 9 likes too???
How the f*** is a chick saying she don’t wanna date someone without a car materialistic??
You can’t read? She said “hang out”, not “date”. Okay, so let’s imagine it’s not a girl. Your own homeboy says “I can’t kick it with you cuz you ain’t got no car broke boy”. He not materialistic too? Like if y’all friends, y’all can’t just take a bus or walk/etc? I got plenty of friends with no whip, I take em wherever.
I worship women, you fishing in the wrong river nephew.