Damn did Blonded f*** up their brand?
I knew something wasn’t right when was getting called out???
That’s the mf that calls everyone out
you can be trans and also a woman
How is that contradictory?
I would love to see their answer for this
adam22 has overstayed his welcome in LA at this point & he isnt contributing ANYTHING POSITIVE to the game as it stands now.
im not even trying to intellectualize things on that philosophical of level, im just saying that i dont think its fair to conflate misunderstanding or discussion immediatedly w/ bigotry just socially. i purposefully dodged any type of philosophcail discussion because i don't think it's the right place to intellectualize things on that level when dealing with actual sensitive topics firsthand
oh yeah i understand that completely
i was just kinda venting with the issues i see in this discussion, which you acknowledged as well
i honestly do think people should engage with that type of theory to get a deeper understanding
what issues? i havent been following your side of the argument tbh, i was talking about something completely diff
i'm kinda high rn, but I think I was speaking to the "why" something is transphobic. It is pretty common for your average person to hear they're being transphobic and genuinely don't know why or what was the thing that made their comment transphobic.
@blonded i thought that appeal to allyship s*** was rly cringe tbh
thats like some leftoid streamer type s*** when they get criticized
oh yeah i understand that completely
i was just kinda venting with the issues i see in this discussion, which you acknowledged as well
i honestly do think people should engage with that type of theory to get a deeper understanding
i agree people should engage w theory but thats like one of those things which belongs in its own spaces. because the entire purpose of theory is to be challenged and discussed, so if questioning is it dismissed, it kinda defeats the purpose. that's why i separate the two, because i understand how people don't want their social issues "debated" when they're realities they're actually living through, but detached commentary or theory by comparison is literally made to be debated academically
@blonded i thought that appeal to allyship s*** was rly cringe tbh
thats like some leftoid streamer type s*** when they get criticized
Appealing to something isn't always bad. If you've been on this site long enough you know I've put down like 10+ pages per trans thread arguing with people. I'm not just flipping to suddenly be transphobic on a whim.
Doing the "I'm part of the LGBTQ+ so LISTEN TO ME!!!" s*** is just as cringe. There are morons in every group
This stuff is similar to Jewish issues. In the sense that people will unknowingly say things like "The Jews got all the secrets, they're about their paper." without knowing why a Jewish person would call that anti-Semitic. Your average person would think & feel that they're giving Jewish people credit.
Trans or not I wouldn’t want ppl talking about who I f***ed on air
this is exactly why Celina powell and that other b**** got their show taken away. they were tearing down black men 1 episode at a time
adam pretended to care then but still continues to do it now.
i want nothing more than for his platform to be completely stripped away from him
these type of people never change / learn
i'm kinda high rn, but I think I was speaking to the "why" something is transphobic. It is pretty common for your average person to hear they're being transphobic and genuinely don't know why or what was the thing that made their comment transphobic.
yeah i agree with you, that's part of what i was saying as well, someone not initially understanding why something might be offensive and then asking why its offensive should not itself be considered an offensive behavior. like people have a right to be offended at something someone did accidentally, sure, but people shouldn't make the assumption asking about it after being called out is automatically representative of the person trying to be hateful rather than just detached
I said what I said & I am no longer engaging with this thread
For anyone who needs it:
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adam22 has built his career off belittling young black men plain and simple you could look back years ago he's been doing this stupid s*** forever
i dont have any hot takes but you did contradict yourself in your own post when you said "she's a trans women, so she's a women"
that literally contradicts itself
Waiting on the explanation to this!
Waiting on the explanation to this!
i have nothing else to say on this. im not gonna go back and forth with you thats not doing anything for both of us
you can continue to attempt to derail this thread thats fine
i have nothing else to say on this. im not gonna go back and forth with you thats not doing anything for both of us
you can continue to attempt to derail this thread thats fine
LOL yeah I thought so!
yeah i agree with you, that's part of what i was saying as well, someone not initially understanding why something might be offensive and then asking why its offensive should not itself be considered an offensive behavior. like people have a right to be offended at something someone did accidentally, sure, but people shouldn't make the assumption asking about it after being called out is automatically representative of the person trying to be hateful rather than just detached
yea. I hear a lot of people say s*** like "you can't tell people what they should and shouldn't be offended by." which is fine, but me asking why such and such is offensive to you, shouldn't be met with further hostility. I understand constantly getting that "why?" though would be agitating.
As a black man dealing with white people on a daily basis, I can definitely understand not wanting feel obligated to constantly educate other grown people. Trust me. That's why I said earlier you just gotta take s*** on the chin and keep it pushing. Fighting everyone is exhausting. I ain't gonna let nobody disrespect me to my face, but I ain't out here to teach everybody that makes a microaggression either. You just gotta find that middle ground for yourself.
LOL yeah I thought so!
like i said, im not gonna go back and forth with you. you clearly just want to be able to get the last word in. very immature. let someones statement stand and move on.
like i said, im not gonna go back and forth with you. you clearly just want to be able to get the last word in. very immature. let someones statement stand and move on.
what you said was very transphobic, no question about it
what you said was very transphobic, no question about it
you guys throw around the word transphobic around a little too casually without actually knowing the person you are speaking to.
what you said was very transphobic, no question about it
im pretty sure he was making a semantic point rather than a literal one. like how the post literally separated the two textually rather than just saying women altogether. he even had a follow-up which said this and it was ignored.
like i said, im not gonna go back and forth with you. you clearly just want to be able to get the last word in. very immature. let someones statement stand and move on.
No!