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  • Jun 21, 2020
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    ARCADE GOON

    Sometimes though - and I think this is unfair - consent is changed retrospectively.

    Like imagine a couple having consensual sex, but them breaking up 2 days later: The girl might feel like her consent was revoked, even though consent is by definition something that cannot be revoked "ex post" (after the fact), only "ex ante" (before the fact) or during the intercourse.

    Meaning: Regret does not equal rape

    I agree. That’s what a lot of these cases seem to be.

  • Jun 21, 2020

    Bro shutup please

  • Synopsis

    Essentially

    How does that ensure that the rapist doesn't continue raping?

  • Magenta 💞
    Jun 21, 2020

    CRINGE

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    ARCADE GOON

    Sometimes though - and I think this is unfair - consent is changed retrospectively.

    Like imagine a couple having consensual sex, but them breaking up 2 days later: The girl might feel like her consent was revoked, even though consent is by definition something that cannot be revoked "ex post" (after the fact), only "ex ante" (before the fact) or during the intercourse.

    Meaning: Regret does not equal rape

    This happened to me actually, so it can and does happen

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    imagine giving that awful bait the dopamine rush from the notification received icon

  • Jun 21, 2020

    Bro just say you wanna be reported.

  • Jun 21, 2020
    Haram

    I’m assigning political positions to the school of thought that you can’t question an accuser and #believeallwomen

    LMFAOO brooo lmaooo yooo hahahahaa

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    Synopsis

    http://restorativejustice.org/#sthash.9qODye2I.dpbs

    I'm not sure if I agree with restorative justice or not for cases regarding rape (personally), it's something that I have very hard times coming to terms with knowing that if someone were to sexually assault me or someone I was close with I'd want the worst for them

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    The same people crying about "the left believing anything"

    Proudly gargle down anything Fox News, Ben Sharpie, or Trump tells them without thought or question

    Please get out this thread

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    ANTI

    But then that isn't neutral. Neutral means to sit back and wait for things play out without offering an opinion, not pick apart an accusers story until it's down to the bone. If you do that, that means you're doubting.

    in recent years i think youll find its the opposite way actually

    seems as soon as an accusation is put forward- they are criticized for being guilty straight away

    just look at what happened to Johnny Depp. if he wasnt smart enough to take an audio recording of her his career/life would have been totally f***ed

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    afterimage

    The same people crying about "the left believing anything"

    Proudly gargle down anything Fox News, Ben Sharpie, or Trump tells them without thought or question

    Please get out this thread

    this shouldnt even be a left vs right or whatever topic

    sexual assault is terrible, how can people not understand that

  • Jun 21, 2020

    man what is wrong with u ppl

  • Jun 21, 2020

    people = men most times

  • Jun 21, 2020
    CLB BMO

    imagine giving that awful bait the dopamine rush from the notification received icon

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    Yall go and believe every accusation these hoes on twitter throw out , but be telling me to stfu yall is done

  • Jun 21, 2020
    I AM LOVE

    Yall go and believe every accusation these hoes on twitter throw out , but be telling me to stfu yall is done

  • Jun 21, 2020
    rwina sawayama

    this shouldnt even be a left vs right or whatever topic

    sexual assault is terrible, how can people not understand that

    Obtuse, ignorant people gotta take it there because they are insecure

  • Jun 21, 2020
    rwina sawayama

    bet. so in what way could they have proof for u to believe them? if its an artist u dislike? they have to record them getting raped?

    This whole situation is actually none of damn business to begin with. Now that everybody is privy to the allegations (because they were posted online , the gates are open to all sorts of foolishness (and rarely solutions)

  • Jun 21, 2020
    I AM LOVE

    Yall go and believe every accusation these hoes on twitter throw out , but be telling me to stfu yall is done

    No, the way you're presenting yourself is dumb

    Yelling in all caps is very mocking of the victim and situation at hand

    You're not 12, please get out

  • Jun 21, 2020
    I AM LOVE

    Yall go and believe every accusation these hoes on twitter throw out , but be telling me to stfu yall is done

    facts

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    Scrolling thru this thread...some of y'all need to be put on a watchlist forreal

  • Jun 21, 2020
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    Babaláwo

    I agree. That’s what a lot of these cases seem to be.

    Often, such cases happen after especially "wild" sex, like group s***or cheating. It seems to be a way that the girl reclaims her "purity", because she is ashamed for what she did because of cultural restraints, by claiming that it wasn't consensual even though she liked it in the moment.

    This is an example why we shouldn't "slut shame" because it leads to needless shame, regret and with that needless accusations of what would otherwise have been consensual intercourse being re-framed as rape or assault as a sort of coping mechanism.

    (I'm not saying this is what Justin did - I am speaking in general terms, Justin's case is different. And what I am referring to is not the norm, just edge cases)

  • Jun 21, 2020
    Smacked Voodoo

    Scrolling thru this thread...some of y'all need to be put on a watchlist forreal

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