Why tho? I would be equally hurt if my girl cheated on me as much as she said I won't be s*** lol
the act of cheating itself isn't abuse though. the lying, manipulation, gaslighting, degrading verbally to make someone believe they aren't being cheated on could be considered abuse. But just f***ing someone else and not telling isn't abuse. Its deception yes but monogamy making people think the act of cheating itself is abuse when its really just dishonesty .
Yes you would be equally hurt but one is "hey you are breaking the rules of our relationship of monogamy" and the other is openly purposely degrading you. Lets say someone wasn't delivering sexually or intimately in a way. Sometimes people cheat because they feel someone can't accept the rejection of a break up so they try to keep both sides happy by stepping out .
Or she might cheat due to her own f***ed up trauma, daddy issues, insecurity, not feeling happy, etc
exactly. That's why I hate when people try to make cheating comparable to the other offenses.
Like if a woman was getting beat on or done wrong by her man and decided to cheat on him, would she be seen as an abuser? No
exactly. That's why I hate when people try to make cheating comparable to the other offenses.
Like if a woman was getting beat on or done wrong by her man and decided to cheat on him, would she be seen as an abuser? No
and this is what I agree on its just kind of a larger more nuanced conversation that don't know if people are ready to have here.
If we being 100% honest monogamy and faithfulness inside a relationship is something we made up as a society and are just programmed to believe should be.
so we in the clear?
no there is still going to currently be a court case. Whether that updates or is cancelled who knows. Currently the evidence his lawyer is talking about hasn't been presented yet so we don't know
exactly. That's why I hate when people try to make cheating comparable to the other offenses.
Like if a woman was getting beat on or done wrong by her man and decided to cheat on him, would she be seen as an abuser? No
That’s a fact. Definitely cheating hurts regardless. It sucks. We all know that.
But it definitely doesn’t come from the same place as verbally beating someone or tryna cut someone down with words like the examples you gave.


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I never even heard of DARVO until today
Literally today in this particular situation
Never in any other domestic abuse case in the media, THIS is the one I learn that acronym from
I never even heard of DARVO until today
Literally today in this particular situation
Never in any other domestic abuse case in the media, THIS is the one I learn that acronym from
I learned about it during the whole Bill Cosby thing
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Fam she’s right they hired back ol girl who just got fired from Marvel to do CGI effects and make Majors look innocent!!!!!!