I mean don’t get me wrong this does come off as a little insecure but I totally support people setting boundaries in their relationships, he literally said if you want to do that it’s cool but I’m not the man for you. While my boundaries would be further than this, I can’t fault people for laying out what they are and aren’t cool with as a partner. And for the record it goes both ways, I would support her placing boundaries on him too

Lowkey by definition, yea lol
If u want to talk coercing her to do this, then maybe but still it wasn't against her will and how exactly would u go about telling someone that they might not be match cause of certain things

This thread would look a whole lot different if it was a guy that stayed with a women with a lot of demands and boundaries. Y'all would be calling him a dumbass and put 0 blame on the woman.

AYOOO??

Nuance and practicality is non existent online I bet you’d be able to have a reasonable conversation about this with these same users if you were sitting face to face

70 pages god damn

Why are you speaking on peoples feelings as if YOU of all people know? Relax bro you sound CRAZY rn tryna pinpoint out how her thought process works

“She tried to comply cause she loved him she’s been holding this in for so long …that s*** eats at you you need to let it out”

Lmaooo niggas writing fanfic itt now???

It’s crazy how some of y’all talk about women like they’re helpless creatures who can’t think for themselves.

“Oh he forced her to delete the pics”

No Nigga he asked her to delete them, and she did. Simple as that. Y’all are legit trying to spread victim hood over f***in pictures being deleted on IG and surfing

I legit pray something similar to this comes out with another couple but with the genders reversed, cus I already know what’s going on in here but I just wanna see the confirmation.

Good for Jonah for expressing his standards and calling it off when she routinely blew it off

She’s only calling it abuse now that she can’t roll in his money bags anymore

If a woman said “you’re violating my boundaries by going to the club and liking posts from women on insta”, all of y’all would say “tell it to him sis!”

But when Jonah says he’s uncomfortable with his girl posing next to half naked dudes and being touchy with them, he’s called controlling

He didn’t ask…he said if you don’t, the relationship is over

And f*** off…I’ve been in relationships I’ve ignored countless red flags and then once it’s over, I realize how f***ed up some things were

It’s not that hard to see where she’s coming from when you’ve been in similar situations

And it doesn’t matter the gender tf…I’m a guy and I was in a relationship where the roles were reversed…and how that played out helps me relate to this s***

Ohhh now it makes sense, nigga trying his hardest to redeem himself lmao

You’re an idiot

Comparing someone who literally shot a woman in the foot and is convicted of it too a fat dude being lame over text is ver disingenuous

Using "love makes you blind" defense for her in this situation doesn't work bc jonah was as straight up and honest as possible about what he wanted and made it clear the kind of person he is. If love makes you so unable to think and you ignore such obvious red flags you really shouldn't be getting into relationships at all lol.

Keep spewing about how abusive Jonah is in this situation. I think your name is getting cleared

“Your wild recent past”

“My boundaries with you based on the ways these actions have hurt our trust”

I think we’re ignoring these two bits of the text. What wild recent past did she have? And what happened that hurt their trust??

Ppl are complaining about “oh he waited til two months into the relationship to set boundaries!!!”

But if my reading comprehension is serving me well, it sounds like something happened that hurt their trust and made him speak up on what his boundaries will be moving forward.

Mashallah brother