men back in the days: how will we defend out village against the invaders!
"men" nowadays: dont talk to other guy
what happen society?
Lol this really what twitter therapists preach now. Just read a post dude said if you in a relationship you shouldn't be friendly at all with the other gender.
Like why relationships nowadays gotta be so limited and polished
Bro gave her a warning shot of his insecurities honestly I respect it! Jonah innocent! It’s like a girl telling you she’s mentally ill before you start dating, then complaining and breaking up cause she’s mentally ill
I believe you guys are smart enough to see this as silly and unreasonable for a grown adult to ask for
I can for sure say it sounds silly to ME, but I can’t say unreasonable because I don’t know the nature of their relationship and where his request stems from.
Does it stem from just his own insecurities? Does it stem from her possibly cheating in the past with another surfer? We literally don’t know.
Bottom line is, and some of y’all TRULY need to realize this:
There’s no precise right or wrong way to navigate a relationship, especially when emotions are involved and logic takes a back seat.
Obviously things like DV, cheating (unless it’s open), and verbal abuse will always be wrong. But knowing how to communicate your insecurities or boundaries with your partner is very subjective, there’s no “perfect” way to do so…and it’s sad to see some of y’all can’t grasp that. Relationships are gonna have ups and downs, levels of toxicity, all based off human nature and not perfection to please weirdos on social media.
Niggas wanna act all holier than thou but not a single one of y’all gave a LEGIT solution on how Jonah should’ve went about it. 1 person said “have a conversation”….um hello that’s literally what he did and y’all still pulled out the torches.
my legit solution is that he should fire the therapist he made that doc about and find one that will help him stop being a head ass
Reading this thread I see niggas that be in relationships that they not fully comfortable in but not saying s*** cause they don't wanna be labeled a misogynist
STUPIDDDD
Yyyyeeeeeaaaahhhhh I'm out. Who gives a flying f*** about any of this and why is this being projected with the same severity/language as actual crimes?
2023 bro
my legit solution is that he should fire the therapist he made that doc about and find one that will help him stop being a head ass
Okay cool, fair, but how would you have handled the “boundary talk”?
2023 bro
Twitter feminists who get their views from the internet instead of actual theory (a book)<<<<
Reading this thread I see niggas that be in relationships that they not fully comfortable in but not saying s*** cause they don't wanna be labeled a misogynist
STUPIDDDD
Lmao labels like that legit don’t scare me at all, if anything it makes me laugh at how misused it is. I’m not sure if ppl nowadays know what the word means.
Okay cool, fair, but how would you have handled the “boundary talk”?
I dont really think theres any “good” way to go about it if youre asking for things that are unreasonable (which to me some of this stuff is)
I think a good way to go about it includes being able to express your reasoning and I just doubt that he can.
Yeah, which is why you shouldn't date someone if you know their line of work and personal life will inevitably trigger your insecurities, you could just as easily give that advice to Jonah
If you love someone, but you need them to change basically everything about their life for the relationship to work (friends, job, etc), do you really love them? Or just an idea of them that you'd like to own?
or maybe there is much more to the situation than these screenshots we have access to? infinite possibilities of how their relationship worked prior to that texts and after, yet we are passing judgement based off of them alone.
it is a short-sighted and selfish way to view any situation, in my opinion. for example, jonah could have expressed to her early on that he is not comfortable having things in his life - including his partner - being on social media. i could see that being reasonable, especially as a well known celebrity who could easily have strange fans. she could have agreed to this early on, but realized in practice it was not going to work for her.
i just made up hypothetical context that could make jonah seem more reasonable here. but i am completely making it up because i have no f***ing clue what their relationship is like - or what either of them are even like for that matter. just as everyone else who is speculating and passing judgement.
mind your own business - it does not matter that others are making it visible to us. it is still not our business.
They broke up 2 years ago and she decided to come out with this s*** when News broke out that he got his new girl pregnant lol
Didn't she say that's the only way she can heal
i thought surfing was something Rocket Power made up I ain't know that s*** was real
Lmao crine
Have a conversation about it with her.
A conversation where they sort the reasons for why he's asking her to do those things and gives her the time to explain how she feels about it
This conversation needs have different solutions to his problems they can explore and it needs to happen BEFORE HE DECIDES TO PUT THEIR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP ON THE LINE
I agree. And I think the first step was those texts where he laid out his boundaries/insecurities. She either submitted or they had more convos after that. Really not sure what else he should have done
I dont really think theres any “good” way to go about it if youre asking for things that are unreasonable (which to me some of this stuff is)
I think a good way to go about it includes being able to express your reasoning and I just doubt that he can.
You gotta remove “unreasonable” tho cus I’m asking how you would go about it, like if you legit had something reasonable in YOUR mind you wanted to establish in your relationship….how do you go about it?
Or better yet do you think Jonah Hills approach is Ok, just what he’s asking for is dumb? (Cus some ppl on here legit think his approach was wrong, so not sure if you do too)

she saw this picture of Jonah happy with his pregnant wifey a month ago and snapped
Lol shawty looks like she'll do worse than the surfer😭😭
Okay fair, but still I’m not hearing any actual answers?
You’re in a relationship, there’s a set of things you don’t want your partner doing, how do you go about expressing them to your partner?
Edit:
Wait post I responded to got deleted
This generation is f***ing ruined when it comes to dating/relationships bc of dumb social media bullshit like this.
lol yes but this woman more his type reserved
NOT EVERYONE CAN HANDLE A BAD B**** LOL
I say that a lot not everyone can handle a woman who expresses themselves
First of all you know he made her take that pic down