Thats f***ed up man and surely must be traumatic.
Maybe contact the police or at the very least signal friends and family
dont go to the cops they wont help you, they will show up when its too late. Safe all the evidence, take notes etc. and then file a restraining order or some s*** idk. But tbh he really needs to get beat up
my bf is gonna be here soon so i'll be well protected :)))))
Your BF should be taking care of dude. Me personally if something like that was happening to my girl. I’d run up on him asap beat his ass then go see his momma and not respectfully
S*** makes me blood boil f***ing loser ass b**** made losers
I’m confused
You said these dates occurred almost 2 years ago. So are these texts recent?
And if so what made him all of a sudden reach out to you out of the blue and decide to start stalking you after two years have already gone by?
Or Did you not notice this man following you around for the past two years and only just now realized it?
Based off the text you seem quite inviting and sensitive to his situation. No excuse for stalking you but your interaction with him seems a bit too kind
I’m confused
You said these dates occurred almost 2 years ago. So are these texts recent?
And if so what made him all of a sudden reach out to you out of the blue and decide to start stalking you after two years have already gone by?
Or Did you not notice this man following you around for the past two years and only just now realized it?
Why you trying to go to bat for creep boy?
No avy? Makes sense
I’m confused
You said these dates occurred almost 2 years ago. So are these texts recent?
And if so what made him all of a sudden reach out to you out of the blue and decide to start stalking you after two years have already gone by?
Or Did you not notice this man following you around for the past two years and only just now realized it?
Man are yall incapable of reading
Clearly those texts are after the first 2 dates. Literally the first sentence
She made this thread because sus ig followed her a week ago she just saw him again yesterday. READ THE POST ofc she doesnt know why hes doing this s***
Why you trying to go to bat for creep boy?
No avy? Makes sense
we need to know more to connect the dots
How are we supposed to accurately assess the situation and help her otherwise?
we need to know more to connect the dots
How are we supposed to accurately assess the situation and help her otherwise?
All of the answers are in the op tho yall just can't read more than a sentence
It’s just facts. Lack of p**** is the cause of most male mental illness. If he had a roster of hoes he wouldn’t be acting like this. He’s probably a fat or skinny weirdo who needs more discipline in his life, and if that fails, then sure he can take the therapy route to cope with his existence as an unattractive man
@gold_experience derailing a thread where a girl talking bout getting stalked to post pity parties AGAIN can yall PLEASE mute this nigga @sab @safe
Therapy needs to be free or extremely affordable. There is a mental health crisis for men that isn't talked about, because they've largely been told to "tough it out" their entire lives. Not on any of this weird social paradox of "male vs. female" stuff, but it really is a rough time for most men 18- 24 now.
Therapy is a grift unless you have an actual DSM 5 diagnosed mental illness.
Most of these young men need to stop eating fast food, watching p***, and get their ass in the gym and get some discipline. Also get off the message boards and forums
Sounds scary, if you think his presence is making you uncomfortable that badly then I’d suggest filing a restraining order. Another option would be to dial up one of your friends and have them beat the s*** out of the guy.
Beating him up could make him more dangerous
he kept saying that we "clicked" and that he had never met someone that "he related to this well"
we mostly talked about music and movies and guitars and s*** and he kept saying he had never met anyone who liked the same stuff that he did
he also asked his friend to ask their friend to ask me out, and my friend said that means he had been like "watching me" for a while
That last part
He is a psychopath, get a restraining order, have your friends defend you
Bro crinnnggeeee man omg. No wonder this has happened to him 4 times lol.
I understand mental health issues, it's hell, but bruv thays too much info and lole a sign of a deep issue. This guy texting you like you're his girlfriend of 5 years lol.
Based off the text you seem quite inviting and sensitive to his situation. No excuse for stalking you but your interaction with him seems a bit too kind
💯 yeah it’s not your fault at all @op but next time don’t say u want to see someone out of trying to be polite when u don’t want to have anything to do with them
Bc he was already obsessed with you, the fact u said u wanted to see him had him hold on to that