this section is so terrible for actual discussion lol
niggas always looking to dunk on someone for likes
of course you would defend this antisocial loser behavior
It can be done but you have to try a lot harder and really develop your social skills
"Develop your social skills"
No just talk to people and they'll respond. It's simple as typing on KTT
"Develop your social skills"
No just talk to people and they'll respond. It's simple as typing on KTT
Youre from the US right?
I will agree its not that hard there but not all cultures are as welcoming to strangers
I travel to a different city by myself at least once a year. What do you mean there’s nothing to do? It’s a whole ass different city lol and I almost always meet cool new people that way
"Develop your social skills"
No just talk to people and they'll respond. It's simple as typing on KTT
Going on holiday by yourself and not speaking to people is brutal lmao
Humans are social beings. Going to bar to just drink by yourself becomes really depressing after night one. Im speaking from experience
OP has a point, society dictates the dynamics for social interaction. Hence why some countries are more easy to visit and make friends as opposed to others
So go on holiday and talk to people? Go to the bar and talk to people? I’ve made many life long friendsby doing these things by myself
I'd rather than die than go to the bar alone, I encounter a lot of those guys when I'm out and they're always annoying as s***
Going to the cinema or to eat alone is peak though. more people should do the former especially
I'd rather than die than go to the bar alone, I encounter a lot of those guys when I'm out and they're always annoying as s***
Going to the cinema or to eat alone is peak though. more people should do the former especially
Bringing my sketchbook and drawing people in a resteraunt is one of my favourite things to do. Ive gotten free drinks and food doing it actually lol it became a problem because i would just get drunk for free when i didnt intend to drink. Goated
Travelling alone to a new city and getting s*** shaking like Clint Eastwood in Fistful of Dollars
I’d go a bit further and get a cocktail shaker kit and u can make margaritas at home exactly how you want them. Whenever money is tight and I can’t afford to hit the bar with my girl we just have a margarita night and cook up a fancy dinner. Budget dates at home go crazy
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Bringing my sketchbook and drawing people in a resteraunt is one of my favourite things to do. Ive gotten free drinks and food doing it actually lol it became a problem because i would just get drunk for free when i didnt intend to drink. Goated
That's cool as f***
I knew a guy who would go to pubs and just start showing ppl magic tricks who had similar experiences to you, really good way to get people talking
I'd rather than die than go to the bar alone, I encounter a lot of those guys when I'm out and they're always annoying as s***
Going to the cinema or to eat alone is peak though. more people should do the former especially
What types of bars do yall be going to lol
Whenever I move to a new neighborhood, I make it a point to go to the nearest dive bar once or twice a week have a couple beers, and just read
You don’t even need to be outgoing and trying to talk to people. Just need to start being perceived as a regular. Before you know it, it becomes easy to chime in on conversations with other regulars or the bartender. Within a month or two you know new people by name and are building friendships with the people you vibe with. Get in on a shot with someone. Let them ask you about the book you’re reading or whatever.
This doesn’t even just have to be with bars but those are the most conducive for this. Finding new people is all about exposure and just demonstrating your a well adjusted, familiar face.
and once you’re a regular somewhere, if you don’t show up for a couple weeks, there’s bound to be someone that says “haven’t seen you in a while” when you go in next. That’s another opportunity for conversation and getting to know people. It’s really not difficult
What types of bars do yall be going to lol
Whenever I move to a new neighborhood, I make it a point to go to the nearest dive bar once or twice a week have a couple beers, and just read
You don’t even need to be outgoing and trying to talk to people. Just need to start being perceived as a regular. Before you know it, it becomes easy to chime in on conversations with other regulars or the bartender. Within a month or two you know new people by name and are building friendships with the people you vibe with. Get in on a shot with someone. Let them ask you about the book you’re reading or whatever.
This doesn’t even just have to be with bars but those are the most conducive for this. Finding new people is all about exposure and just demonstrating your a well adjusted, familiar face.
and once you’re a regular somewhere, if you don’t show up for a couple weeks, there’s bound to be someone that says “haven’t seen you in a while” when you go in next. That’s another opportunity for conversation and getting to know people. It’s really not difficult
Don't get me wrong you can definitely find bars with that welcoming communal atmosphere.
Most of the bars in London don't have that vibe though - you'd go to a pub for that kind of thing
It's mostly semantics tho, I agree with everything else you said
@op when they realize they live in a society

What types of bars do yall be going to lol
Whenever I move to a new neighborhood, I make it a point to go to the nearest dive bar once or twice a week have a couple beers, and just read
You don’t even need to be outgoing and trying to talk to people. Just need to start being perceived as a regular. Before you know it, it becomes easy to chime in on conversations with other regulars or the bartender. Within a month or two you know new people by name and are building friendships with the people you vibe with. Get in on a shot with someone. Let them ask you about the book you’re reading or whatever.
This doesn’t even just have to be with bars but those are the most conducive for this. Finding new people is all about exposure and just demonstrating your a well adjusted, familiar face.
and once you’re a regular somewhere, if you don’t show up for a couple weeks, there’s bound to be someone that says “haven’t seen you in a while” when you go in next. That’s another opportunity for conversation and getting to know people. It’s really not difficult
becoming a regular at a spot is special
You can do all of those things yourself but I get what you mean. There’s a stigma about going to the movies or going to a restaurant by yourself.
You can do all of those things yourself but I get what you mean. There’s a stigma about going to the movies or going to a restaurant by yourself.
definitely is a stigma, majority from older generations i think too.
some people cant even go to the grocery stone alone think about this before u tell someone to travel the world solo
I wouldn't go to a social place without a social intention. what do I need to go to a bar for if im alone, getting wasted is times cheaper at home if I dont have to entertain anyone else
So go on holiday and talk to people? Go to the bar and talk to people? I’ve made many life long friendsby doing these things by myself
Uhh i have as well
It depends on the city/culture how well it goes. Maybe read my posts before you try to dunk on me?
insane you listed 3 things you can very easily do alone without feeling weird 😂