so what do you expect us to do? This is life. As long as you are breathing and have your freedom, there is still an opporunity. Keep trying till u cant

This is the worst advice u coulda given him

Nigga that’s just life sometimes it happens

My ideal situation is having a cool apartment that I have no trouble paying for

Being great at music

Making money off of music

Having a bunch of cool hobbies i can do and improve at (skateboarding, MMA)

Owning some cool clothes specifically a bunch of striped shirts and some black laser 4s

Maybe a Tesla but a modern car that’s fuel efficient and payed off

And a girlfriend that’s brown skin has freckles and cool hobbies

I think all of these aren’t to far fetched

Salem#0965

U got health insurance?

If u do u can get therapy for a few months afaik

Then they can refer u to long term therapists

Bro head 30 minutes north and u got Gwinnett and Buford they more diverse (as far as black people) up that way yeah it’s bougie and some snobby whites up that way but it’s probably where you’ll find better folks to hang with than dekalb (I’m from Decatur)

Ok u basing yo happiness way too much off of wealth and material s*** and u being way too picky u gotta cut that out before u find happiness

Stop basing your happiness off of material items and women

I say this as someone who almost committed suicide because of those things

They won't do anything for you except make the void bigger

To find happiness you need to set goals and start searching for peace within yourself

U are 20 bro u don’t need to be thinking about no Tesla and u can have those hobbies and cool clothes working a regular job right now
U don’t need a gf like that that’s a desire
Need money for an apartment so try to work

U can do a lot of that stuff but it won’t appear out of thin air. Having a job also takes ur mind off s*** trust me. Even if u gotta u er to and from work tags better than not making money at all

This nigga is not average nor will settle to be. Let him be picky. And all his points can be achieved for the type of person he is

Maybe Santa will come thru this year 🤞

It's not about being average it's about striving for the things that matter in life

He can spend all his time chasing the Tesla but then what. Then hes just a nigga wit a Tesla. Theres no satisfaction in that

it isn’t about that
if you constantly set s*** like that as the goal for happiness then one day you’ll achieve it and realize that actually that doesn’t just suddenly make you happy

you can’t enjoy the destination until you can enjoy the journey

Its time to take stock my brother

What do you have (money and possesions), what are you good at, what are your experiences. Take time out of your day to find out everything that is YOURS. ID’s, birth certificates, the whole 9.
Find a job, any job for now, get at least a months pay. Look online (like reddit) for people in your situation. Theres loads of threads on it. They will provide a lot of good resources, tactics, what have you.

If you dont know where you want to move, make a list of good places and pick a random one.

This is for sure a drastic measure, but perhaps a good one. You will not be able to pick and choose your conditions, you go with whats available. A true “beggars cannot be choosers” lifestyle. If youre not up for it that is okay too. Take your time

But it is an option, and a lot easier to do than you might think. You will find trouble. You will find frustration. I hope you can find peace of mind too, regardless of what you do.

I’m talking about his creative points btw

hi kaylin

The Tesla point and gf point are the only things that don’t matter in his points. The rest do and he should focus on those things just as much as mentally improving too

sure but it’s the same thing with them too

if I base my happiness around me being successful in music I got two options

1. I never become successful and I’m unhappy

2. I become successful am happy briefly and then realize that my fundamental brain chemistry is no different to before I’m just now successful at music

you gotta learn to find enjoyment in the little things instead of it constantly being about setting a goal that will somehow make you happy and fix all your problems

And I say this as someone’s who’s struggled w that their entire life

Nah bro I’m not calling him average but u should not be 20 and aiming for a Tesla that won’t do nothing for u. He need to focus on the music and have a job that will get him bread and take his mind off things. I understand having a dream girl but cmon that’s a very specific type u don’t know what u might be missing out on can’t live life like it’s streamlined like that

That’s not to say don’t work on your music and etc

But don’t view that as the key to you being happy

Yea I sorta reworded wat I meant above

Requested.