yeah but like that also could not happen

not really. I feel like it would be a pretty natural reaction

seems kinda paranoid to me

like creating a whole situation that doesn't exist but could happen maybe and not wanting someone to be around another person because of that is a little weird

Why risk it tho?

It's like having something blocking a fire exit, chances of a fire breaking out are low but if one does you wouldn't want something blocking the way when you could've just moved it to begin with

more like she's your fiancé, why would you want her spending the majority of her time with a different guy

That’s true. Do you think my point of view is stemmed from subconscious insecurity or projection?or just my imagination running wild? Am I projecting not trusting myself around temptation on my girl? I felt guilty thinking of this girl in that way, but I’m a human and those “impure” thoughts don’t just go away. I also trust that I have will power not to cheat. I told my girl to consider her feelings

And @GoldenChild

I told my girl it was a red flag that in this debate, I said “so if I said it makes me uncomfortable, you would still go?” And she said yes because she a grown women and knows she won’t do anything. Yet me I’m like you should at least consider my feelings. I’m not trying to control you, I’m just voicing my feelings and instinct of other niggas not respecting boundaries.

idk maybe she likes hanging out with them

bro u just being contrarian

My bad OP I’m hijacking yo thread 😭😭

because I think someone should hang out with someone if they enjoy their company?

no one is making that point and you know it..

yeah but in that situation you're controlling an inanimate object

Your girl tryna reverse the scenario really doesn’t work because it’s different, like I said if it’s you at a dinner with old girl in attendance vs some dude at her dinner

And that whole attitude of oh I’m a grown ass woman blah blah, don’t pay that any mind lol.

You’ll learn the hard way.

or like also I could not

which is like an equally likely possibility

You gotta make it clear and not try to be cute about it

you asked why I would want someone to hang out with another person

So what you’re saying is

Me at this dinner is me trusting myself. Her at a dinner is me having to trust another man, which is retarted because we know niggas.

Yep

She might try to say it’s a double standard and not fair but, a lot of s*** in life aint fair. It is what it is

???

Ok

This site really fell off, man. On ktt1 at least 3 people would have posted "pics". smh.

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