Man I wish it was that simple

I’ve done a couple girls like that in the past but I can’t with her. down bad simpin

This kinda hot ngl

Yeah sorry op she does sound like a handfull

Literally why? Explain it to me this s*** is always so fascinating to hear

Trauma bonds

Call it quits before it's too late and you end up having a kid with this demon

This sounds like she found someone else and was looking for a quick reason to break you off. If you weren’t giving one she had to make one up. Likely she was trying to get a screenshot so she could paint herself as the good guy. Like others said it’s a red flag.

I wish I could have someone this emotionally invested in me.

It's like we all dated the same b**** lmfao

Damn I thought I was the only who thought so lmao then again i dated a girl just like this so maybe that's why

You need to seek therapy, staying in these relationships say something about us. We're f***ed up too, but we gotta aspire to do better. This s*** is not cute at all he's in an abusive relationship the s*** is textbook he has a big heart I can tell and the c*** knows this she knows how to press his buttons manipulate him gaslight him the works that kind of behavior can f*** someone's brain up the wiring in there can change and it can take a lot of time and effort to recover from something like this.

Honestly I would hardly call this s*** a "relationship" this man's a hostage #freenigerianpastor

The thing is I tried to leave that girl I was with but she would pull me back in and use sexual favors to keep me like forcing herself on me and refusing to accept my rejections. Alot of the time I would break up with her because I was aware it was toxic and needed to end and shed be like give me 24 hours and if I cant convince you then we'll end things. Or shed show up at my crib uninvited. Now I'm not saying I was innocent. I called her names and was verbally abusive so neither of us can say we were great partners. Everybody has their faults.

@op please, for the love of god
follow this advice!!

Man this exchange reminds me of this colombian-black chick I dated. I snapped her a video from the backseat of my car after work; My mom was driving and brother was in the front. She immediately called me and I was like who tf in your car, bet not be no b****
She was crazy, had to cut ties

Insecurity is the downfall of alot of relationships. And some of it stems from us being over exposed to so many stories of folks cheating

Where u at doe?

Exactly. It's a killer smh

We lost litty too??? First d***er and now litty..

Been there done that. Those b****es have nothing else to throw at you but p**** and they know this. They ain't s*** but there impulsive and can't be trusted very likely to cheat on you in a fit of rage because you made them angry very petty personalities and then they'll try to convince you it's your fault you made them do it, they'll make sure to acquire a new supply before dropping you too but things won't be different with them the cycle will repeat so long as they refuse to admit they have problems and seek help but they'll refuse, who the f*** wants to date someone like that? B****es with bpd and I'm talking girls/guys (guys can be b****es too) that are undiagnosed who aren't seeking help for themselves (unfortunately I believe it's most of them) are capable of some very heinous s***. There agents of chaos they leave a path of destruction everywhere they go and there's a pattern in all there past relationships, they f*** them all up. They don't have any long term friends, probably don't get along with there family (and I admit some of them have there reasons and I think there dealing with trauma they haven't processed), for sure there exes are all pieces of s*** and they never did anything wrong there all at faut according to them but the common denominator in all these failed relationships is them they can't comprehend that maybe there a******s and played a role in why they all failed. They'll still manage to somehow paint themselves a victim and convince many people of it. With these b****es there is no winning there is nothing you could have done they will always find something to b**** about something to throw in your face and make you feel small because there miserable. Everyone loses in these kind of relationships. Moving forward you should try to find out why you tolerated that behavior and put up with that bullshit especially if you did it for a long time. You are a king you should act like one you should not tolerate any behavior like this I'm sure you have something to contribute to a relationship and there's girls out there that would appreciate it, unlike like them c***s they will love you and support you not abuse you just take the beefs out on each other when you're f***ing instead like some real ones or talk them out like adults without s*** talking each other. I think we all deserve to be in healthy relationships and have someone who cares about us and wants the best for us and vice vera. Some of us don't know what that's like and we've never experienced this we weren't raised right or f***ed up things happened to us that ingrained certain things into us where we constantly find ourselves in relationships with trash people. But by gaining an understanding, of those things, I believe we can use it to our advantage it's real easy to swat away the bullshit when you know what too look for. If you don't got a baby with a b**** like this you gucci were breathing easy out here. The world is our oyster let's treat it like it.

soon as i saw that bunny bitmoji i knew it was over for op

Yeah man she sexy as hell. But there’s a limit a man can take no matter how good they look or as good as the p**** is.

Peace of mind is worth more than that

Another thing is everyone has a breaking point these b****es will push and push and push and push it's inevitable you'll snap so don't feel too bad about that. We will all let the bullshit slide sometimes especially if we love someone but at some point you will snap and say some s*** you regret or do something you regret but that is human we are not punching bags the abuse will eventually cause a reaction. The difference between us is we can admit we f***ed up and try to find a solution. While they act like toddlers throw tantrums stonewall you and expect you to be a mind reader. There's b****es that are normal out there that are way less of a headache I have come to the conclusion that these people are trash and I just won't deal with them in the future romantically.

Hard to explain bro.

You ever had someone come into your life present themselves as everything you want, you become attached, then they switch?

That’s what happened.

I’ve dumped hoes before without a 2nd thought, but with her something different hard to explain. Got my head all f***ed up.