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    Urameshii

    Oh absolutely

    That is WILD

  • 1996 BRL

    You gotta get some mystique
    Then you won't need social media

    Just live life lol

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    I hate to say this bro but many girls see that as a red flag. Even if you're not active is fine but having no digital presence is alarming to most women nowadays. I don't think guys care if a girl doesn't have IG or socials

    I've never met a girl that's told me that's a red flag but I'm in my 30s. Feel like it's a different mindset the older you get

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    I'll put it to you like this bro

    Girl meets 2 guys (attractiveness is irrelevant in this example)

    Guy 1: has IG, posts regular s***. No red flags seems like a regular dude

    Girl: hmm I might give this guy a chance

    Guy 2: no social media or online presence.

    Girl: yeah idk about this dude he could be a serial killer or have a wife and kids or something

    This May seems like an exaggeration but I've literally heard this verbatim from friends and girls I've met. S*** bro some girls even run your name and dob through casenet websites looking up your public court records and s***

    This is why that tea app blew up as much as it did a year ago because when it comes to dating who someone presents themselves to be could be completely different than who they are. As stupid as social media is it does provide a sense of who you are as a person or what your interests are. S*** I've personally even pulled girls who I don't even know but they see me post at the same places they be at and message me directly. Now mind you I'm in my 20s and maybe this is just how young women think but in my experience asking for someone's IG is the new phone number

    Damn like a credit score

    I have no social media and I am married with a kid 🤔🤔

    But I don’t try to get women lol

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    Very fine difference between no socials (or just doesn't want to give it to you) and someone who has socials but isn't active. Me for example I only post on IG when I travel or goto an event. Maybe a couple times a month or maybe on the weekends I'll post on my story. I don't really watch people stories or scroll

    This sounds like a normal guy this is why you have a Benito avi too 😌 you know the game and nowadays both parties have to

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    Jim Halpert

    That is WILD

    The dating scene has evolved and somehow regressed at the same time s***s nuts out here for all of us single ladies/gentleman

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    Urameshii

    The dating scene has evolved and somehow regressed at the same time s***s nuts out here for all of us single ladies/gentleman

    It kinda sounds awful

  • Grew up in a different time I reckon. Thank god. This sounds like work.

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    Jim Halpert

    It kinda sounds awful

    It can be

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    Urameshii

    It can be

    It’s like that black mirror social credit episode

  • Another thread where I love and appreciate my wife so much more

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    Jim Halpert

    It’s like that black mirror social credit episode

    I think I said that as a comment “this is my dating life”

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    Urameshii

    I think I said that as a comment “this is my dating life”

    Dam

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    Jim Halpert

    Dam

    Nah I’m kidding my life is actually good just curving weirdos left and right thriving In Chicago but the dating s*** is all been cooked

  • Urameshii

    Nah I’m kidding my life is actually good just curving weirdos left and right thriving In Chicago but the dating s*** is all been cooked

    Been meaning to get up there. I hear amazing things about that city

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    Urameshii

    This sounds like a normal guy this is why you have a Benito avi too 😌 you know the game and nowadays both parties have to

    You fw Omar courtz? I was sleeping on his last album that s*** heat

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    You fw Omar courtz? I was sleeping on his last album that s*** heat

    S*** is my current soundtrack tbh