I’m gonna find a way to keep them, I just hope they don’t close too soon on me

if you feel this deeply bout earrings, move out

Lol I got To at this point, hole already closed up 😔

as soon as i moved out, i grew out dreads

transparent plastic earring plugs. same thing happened to me, i wore those when I was at home. get em on amazon. thank me later

the title update

this is the dumbest s*** and it's always from parents that think they own their kids

yall would question any government that said this type of s*** why you cape for parents

I'm African and I convinced my mom to let me pierce my ears while we were at the mall when I was 17. Of course she was very against it at first but i managed to convince her...and when my dad saw (it was a lil bit after cause my parents are separated) he barely even cared...guess i lucked out

Your parents probably dont want ppl to think ur another "hoodlum" on the street cause they still think that only "hoodlums" pierce their ears but that's definitely not the case...and ur dad prolly really wants u to succeed and thats why he so against it but they gotta understand that u can literally take em out whenever u want after you've had them 4-6 weeks... Like bruh I don't go out much and when I'm chillin at home like rn I don't even have them in

If i was in your scenario I'd legit tell my parents they have to physically take em outta my ears themselves. If u think u have the right to tell me what I can do with my body then u better be ready to rip them s***s outta my ear...but I'm a mentally unstable nigga of extremes so if anyone is gonna take it there I usually will

even worse don't get one cross earring and have the stud on the other side

i mean, the emphasis on individual freedom is very ingrained in western culture

The hole already closed man. I’m pissed I legit looked smooth asl with them on. Problem is that I gotta take them out to soon cause apparently they can’t stand seeing them. Idk at this point I’m just gonna grind it out and get my own spot. They literally won’t let me do s***… I’m f***ing 22 like why are they still on this type s***?

:(((((( sad to hear man. atleast u have a legit answer to "why don't you ever come visit" once you move out

Damn op i feel you my mom didn't want me to get piercings but i said f*** that s*** and let my friend pierce them when i was out with them. You should've just kept them b****es in but my mom also isn't african and ik they be strict as hell sometimes

Are you comparing the state with your parents who created and birthed you? It’s time to grow up

that’s crazy, my parents got smoother as I grew up
like they stopped beating my ass at like 10

i remember when i got my ear pierced, i was lucky and my hair covered my ear parents didnt notice for like 2 months

"if you live under their roof follow their rules" it's not a hard connection to make. birthing someone doesn't give you 100% control of your offspring, weirdo

i'd hope you wouldn't cape for a government that controls what you can wear and do with your body you live on it's land, it's stupid under any scenario

Man said he was done being a slave yet he won't leave the plantation

If you live under their roof, you should respect and follow their wishes. It’s not about “controlling your body” it’s about respecting your parents who have sacrificed so much to raise you

Lmao shutup man

Plantation still feeding a nigga tho

just get clip on earrings

Op are you 12

22

you should get gauges and really piss off your parents op