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  • Oct 11, 2021
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    YANDHI

    ok yeah this is weird fetishizing then. its prejudiced af too

    i feel like you wrote your OP in the nicest way possible for your buddy. bruh prob being racist

    You can be attracted to certain cultural values as well tho. There’s nothing really weird or racist about that.

    Obviously you can’t expect every girl of that race to have the same values but you know there’s a higher chance of them having particular values/traits based off culture and historical context

  • Oct 11, 2021
    YANDHI

    read his other post. dude clinging on the "submissive Asian" stereotype

    edit: nvm lol

    Yea seen it

    That s***s weird

    Nigga going into the real world looking for Asian women to call him senpai and s***

  • Ktt racist

  • Oct 11, 2021
    PaulAllensCard

    Says that’s their best trait

    racist

  • Oct 11, 2021
    PaulAllensCard

    I know right she’s so f***ing hot it doesn’t even make sense

    she looks perfect lmao like how

  • Oct 11, 2021
    Zokkon

    Yes and no

    no matter how much you deny it there's inherent biases that come with race preference, it can be from assumed personality/behaviour to x race have a bone structure that i like because its more (beautiful, feminine, masculine, 'strong' etc).

    It works both ways btw, i've seen just as many women say they prefer a certain race.

    Like people ITT have mentioned, it's when you attach fetish s*** like thinking they're more submissive or whatever that it becomes racist.

    IMO a bigger problem is people having preferences to NOT date a certain race, imagine having a blanket ban on everyone just because of their ethnicity

    I totally agree with this, but aside from cases like OP's where the dude is just stereotyping asian women, I don't think it's useful to point out in everyday life

    Like yeah, there is implicit racism in people preferring or not preferring different races attraction-wise, but there's really nothing that can be done about that, nobody wants to hear 'If you're not attracted to me you're a terrible person', as far as social issues go it's one of the most volatile because it can sound like pressuring people into s***if handled wrongly

    That being said when I was a teenager I did worry that I might be one of those dudes who's not really attracted to people outside his own race, but now I'm older I've found myself attracted to all races, so it can change with time

  • Oct 11, 2021
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    Zokkon

    BTW this is why representation is important. So many POC look to white people as the standard of beauty and that morphs their preferences heavily so you can't really blame them

    How many girls you seen dating asian guys before K-pop and anime blew up in the mainstream

    Kpop and anime blowing has been a blessing for me

  • Oct 11, 2021

    No.

  • Oct 11, 2021
    PaulAllensCard

    Says that’s their best trait

    Welp

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    depends on his reasoning

    if he thinks asian women are a monolith and likes them because he thinks they all have certain personality traits he’s a weirdo (racist)

  • Oct 11, 2021
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    The Asian lady from that squid s*** is skin & bones with a decent face. Y’all hyping her up WAY too heavy.

  • Oct 11, 2021

    I mean, I love black women and my two longest relationships, including my current gf, have been with black women I don't think I fetishize black women, but I'm not going to deny that it has something to do with listening to hip hop and seeing all those baddies in videos from the early-mid 00s

  • Oct 11, 2021
    Chloe

    depends on his reasoning

    if he thinks asian women are a monolith and likes them because he thinks they all have certain personality traits he’s a weirdo (racist)

    sadly this is all too common

  • Oct 11, 2021
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    MarcTuscan

    The Asian lady from that squid s*** is skin & bones with a decent face. Y’all hyping her up WAY too heavy.

    It’s the second Korean woman that america knows lol. First was Jessica from parasite and they gassed her too

    As a bit of an expert on Korean women myself, I can assure these folks that squid game lady ain’t anything special

  • Oct 11, 2021

    Not really but i don't see how someone could like girls solely based on their race.. i like everything ive seen attractive girls of every single race

  • White women baybee

  • Oct 11, 2021
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    PaulAllensCard

    Says that’s their best trait

    Nothing wrong with that. Need loyalty these days. And submissive they can take good deep strokes

  • Oct 11, 2021
    Jihyo

    You can be attracted to certain cultural values as well tho. There’s nothing really weird or racist about that.

    Obviously you can’t expect every girl of that race to have the same values but you know there’s a higher chance of them having particular values/traits based off culture and historical context

    Its not cultural values..its a very big stereotype that does more damage than good. He's approaching them with the presumption they're fitting under this idea that they

    its objectifying them more than anything and leads to a lot of the issues women of that community face every day. And women in general already don't have it easy

    "The stereotypes that Asian women are exotic, submissive, and hypersexual are longstanding," she said. "When I first moved to the United States to attend college, I was shocked at the frequency of sexual harassment I was subject to because I am Korean. So many people interact with us based on their stereotypes, fetishes and fantasies about Asian American women.”

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    The comments she and others receive are framed as flattery or compliments, when in reality, men are fetishizing Asian women, she said, objectifying them in ways that put lives at risk. Their preference is almost always for a small, dainty, submissive East Asian woman.

    nbcbayarea.com/news/national-international/stereotypes-fetishes-and-fantasies-asian-american-women-link-sexualization-and-racism/2497859

  • Oct 11, 2021

    I’d call it fetishization, and yes it’s f***ing weird.

    You can have preferences in a partner, absolutely. Big battie, lips sent straight from heaven, etc. But to say “I love all _ girls because they have fat asses” is weird

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  • Oct 11, 2021
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    Nope

  • Oct 11, 2021
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    PEACEFUL HARMONY

    Nothing wrong with that. Need loyalty these days. And submissive they can take good deep strokes

    Bro there’s nothing deep about your strokes

    I guarantee it.

  • DZE

  • Oct 11, 2021
    allmygirlsdoyoga

    Nope

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    PaulAllensCard

    Says that’s their best trait

    Well he’s stupid af and is living in an anime/kpop drama world. Real Asian women are the reason the term “tiger mom” exists. My moms south Asian, and I can assure you they’re fierce & usually run the maintenance of their family/household. They’ll f***ing slap their husband out in broad day light over some light s***.

    All Asian women have similar cultures. I can guarantee you Indian/Bengali/Pakistani/Chinese/Japanese & Korean women have values which overlap together MORE than any other continent found in the world.

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