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@Nero hey bro

What’s up

They frying u over there

F*** em

It ain’t even that serious 😂😂

I agree bro. They just want to have moral superiority

People pretending so they don’t get banned/muted lol

Y’all this s*** is visible to everyone
Man I’m not even frying you
You just need to realize being around s***ty people doesn’t mean the collective is s***ty

You can’t blame someone for feeling this way though

you can tho
it’s an archaic way of thinking that all women are the root of your problems bc you don’t like what you see or who you’re around

Hey this was a private conversation. Take it easy on him

he’s fine I promise
but the internal misogyny he’s harboring isn’t
I’m serious man invest in quality relationships with others and set boundaries
change your mindset and challenge yourself & others do better

I’m trying to coach my buddy up. He’ll be fine I think. I hope

So it’s entirely my fault for feeling this way and the people that make me feel this way have no blame in it?

bruh no one makes you think the way you think
Your experiences can form your opinions but they’re ultimately yours to own
that’s like the equivalent of getting slapped in the face and then thinking “oh everyone is gonna slap me in the face now”

you’ve gotta make the choice to formulate your own opinions but rooting them in hate is toxic for everyone not just yourself
That’s like holding a hot coal in your hand and expecting it to burn someone else. You’re the one suffering out of all of it
It’s a jaded, tired mindset man
My best advice to you is to prioritize communication & setting boundaries with people. Let them know where you stand and remove yourself if you don’t fit. Don’t blanket mindset you’re only putting yourself at a disadvantage

I know it’s an unreasonable way of thinking, immature even, but what do you want me to do i can’t change how i feel and you’d feel the same way too if you had been through what i’ve been through

kompoibd

no, I don’t think I would
I don’t know your experiences but I know mine and I have had plenty of opportunity to take the jaded & closed off approach. It simply serves no one
do better & focus on your own healing/growth and working through whatever experiences you’ve lived through
Nobody deserves the trauma they’ve been inflicted but it’s never an excuse to morph that into hatred and put it on others

Lets just agree to disagree

I don’t think you can agree to disagree on a hateful mindset lol
i wish you healing & growth dude seriously but it starts with you
You’ve got to challenge yourself to do better
I’m simply a mere stranger on the internet trying to help you lol

That’s the problem, we’re strangers, you don’t know me like that so you can’t understand where i’m coming from, but i appreciate you trying to help though

it’s cool to feel some type of way about trauma or your experiences
What’s not ok is to project that onto everyone else because it happened to you & that somehow magically applies to all women
That’s what I’m trying to convey to you
dislike qualities, traits what have you but the issue is when you begin to say it applies to all women & be hateful about it