Mar 3, 2025
FOREVAi think a lot of people on here underestimate how self-reflective and open about their flaws one can be. i didn’t get the impression that you were trying to brag or talk down on anyone in this thread. (though outright calling your friends partners ugly is a no go, even if it‘s true)
maybe it’s because i see some of my old self in you. it‘s good that you‘re noticing patterns in your life and actively trying to change them. i think one day a girl will come that will make you change your ways, whether you want to or not. at least that‘s how it was for me.
i kept chasing baddies and went wild for some years with nothing but one night stands and meaningless sex. when i was finally ready to commit to someone, it all went to s***. she was an awful person and i actually knew right from the start. but it was the path i‘ve paved for so many years, so i just had to see it through. even though i knew it wouldn‘t end good.
it f***ed me up so bad that i realized i can’t disregard someone‘s personality just because they‘re hot. i haven’t been in love since, but at least i‘m not having headaches anymore either.
while everyone around you gets married and starts building a family it‘s only natural to feel like you‘re missing out, but not everyone can live the same life. every life moves at it’s own pace. who knows if a genuine relationship is what’s best for you right now? only time will tell. comparison is the thief of joy, can‘t say it enough. walk your path and stick to it. stay blessed
Thanks so much for keeping it real with me and for all the wise words
This 100% isn’t a “brag thread” at all and I was sad to see some people assumed it was I was genuinely looking for other people’s personal perspectives and constructive criticism
I know it’s wrong for me to say they’re unattractive but I was simply trying to draw the comparison between who I’ve been pursuing versus who my friends are setting down with
That’s the thing I’ve actually been intentionally single since October and it made me realize all the headaches and stress I was carrying when juggling toxic situationships
Being at the age I am now and all of my friends around me getting engaged and married makes me feel like I’m running out of time to get serious about my dating intentions and unfortunately I feel as though I can’t reprogram my brain to focus on anything other than physical appearances
- Mar 3, 2025·edited·1 reply
CRACKASTEPPAVEGANSeek therapy man, respectfully. This is beyond ktt's purview
Therapy as been great
Even my Mom was a therapist and she’s given me some advice too
I just wanted to hear if anyone else has encountered the same problem in life and just like the post above you it’s refreshing to hear a personal perspective on this
- Mar 3, 2025
FlyghostWhat was bad ab her ?
I don’t want to speak negatively about her but there were a lot of major emotional and lifestyle issues that were too difficult to look past
- Mar 3, 2025
TAXIofc, not everyone is gonna be a saint, you yourself admitted all your girls were bad lol.
perhaps now is just not your time to meet the one. in fact, it might happen when you least expect it. just don't put too much pressure on yourself.
you'll be alright my g
Thanks so much bro you’re the best love you
I’m just going to be patient and let life naturally unfold the way it’s meant to
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyTheRocket64· edited
Therapy as been great
Even my Mom was a therapist and she’s given me some advice too
I just wanted to hear if anyone else has encountered the same problem in life and just like the post above you it’s refreshing to hear a personal perspective on this
I mean I can appreciate that you're being self aware about your situation, and seeing a shrink, so salute. This is step 1 of CBT.
Mar 3, 2025·2 repliesTheRocket64Since 2022 I've been on a run dating beautiful girls (some of them have modeled for big brands / billboards / etc.) but unfortunately I’ve had to break up with all of them after realizing they're actually awful people beyond their physical appearance
A few of my friends who have recently gotten married are with people who are unattractive but they're genuinely happy
My friends have been pushing for me to stop pursuing pretty girls and to find a normal one to finally settle down with
I feel like I can't reprogram by brain and I'm always going to prioritize looks over personality / morals / values / etc. which will ultimately prevent me from truly being happy in life
I was just wondering if anyone else can relate to this and provide any words of wisdom
Is this thread a humble brag about you breaking bad b****es' hearts, f*** nigga?
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyDying2Live
Is this thread a humble brag about you breaking bad b****es' hearts, f*** nigga?
Not really tbh
- Mar 3, 2025
Young KingPost some lookalike pics of your type? Im curious what 10/10 is to you as its different to every body
I honestly don’t have a type like even with the people I’ve dated they’re all differently ethnicities and backgrounds
My specific type are just the type of girls you’d see in fashion magazines or website product pages
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyCRACKASTEPPAVEGAN
Not really tbh
Was asking OP, f*** nigga.
- Mar 3, 2025CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN
I mean I can appreciate that you're being self aware about your situation, and seeing a shrink, so salute. This is step 1 of CBT.
Thanks bro
I’m always trying my best to be super honest with myself and trying my best to change for the better
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyDying2Live
Is this thread a humble brag about you breaking bad b****es' hearts, f*** nigga?
LOL not at all bro
If anything they’re the ones that have broken my heart after emotionally investing in each relationship but realizing it wasn’t healthy for me
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyDying2Live
Was asking OP, f*** nigga.
And I'm telling you, dying to live
- Mar 3, 2025·3 repliesYoung King
Post some lookalike pics of your type? Im curious what 10/10 is to you as its different to every body
Circling back to answering this question again the more I think about it I'd say 5 celeb look-a-likes that closely resembles exes would be:
Jung Ho-yeon
Tyla
Lily-Rose Depp
Dua Lipa
Clairo - Mar 3, 2025·1 replyTheRocket64
LOL not at all bro
If anything they’re the ones that have broken my heart after emotionally investing in each relationship but realizing it wasn’t healthy for me
Ok, cool. Unfortunately, I relate to the original post, f*** nigga. It's a sucky situation we find ourselves in, and I just wanted to make sure you were lowkey flexing.
- Mar 3, 2025CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN
And I'm telling you, dying to live
He confirmed he was not stunting on us. My apologies, f*** nigga. You were right, and I want to give you your credit for being so.
- Mar 3, 2025·2 repliesTheRocket64
Circling back to answering this question again the more I think about it I'd say 5 celeb look-a-likes that closely resembles exes would be:
Jung Ho-yeon
Tyla
Lily-Rose Depp
Dua Lipa
ClairoClairo as a 10/10 is interesting. I'm not saying this to s*** on your taste (because that's corny), but there are a lot of white women that look similar in aesthetic to her. Unless it's her talent and status that you're attracted to, you should have no problem finding a woman who looks like her. Hope this increases your optimism, f*** nigga!
- Mar 3, 2025Dying2Live
Ok, cool. Unfortunately, I relate to the original post, f*** nigga. It's a sucky situation we find ourselves in, and I just wanted to make sure you were lowkey flexing.
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyDying2Live
Clairo as a 10/10 is interesting. I'm not saying this to s*** on your taste (because that's corny), but there are a lot of white women that look similar in aesthetic to her. Unless it's her talent and status that you're attracted to, you should have no problem finding a woman who looks like her. Hope this increases your optimism, f*** nigga!
Think Clairo but super model equivalent
She used to get Clairo / Cameron Diaz / Blake Lively / Jennifer Lawrence comparisons a lot but she doesn't look exactly like any of them
But thanks bro I appreciate the optimism
- Mar 3, 2025·2 repliesTheRocket64
Think Clairo but super model equivalent
She used to get Clairo / Cameron Diaz / Blake Lively / Jennifer Lawrence comparisons a lot but she doesn't look exactly like any of them
But thanks bro I appreciate the optimism
That's a lotta milk
- Mar 3, 2025CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN
Seek therapy man, respectfully. This is beyond ktt's purview
Seek therapy (in addition to talking to us about your issues because we are a community of supportive and relatable characters), f*** nigga!
- Mar 3, 2025CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN
That's a lotta milk
Don't worry she was the only white girl out of the last 5
- Mar 3, 2025·1 replyTheRocket64
Circling back to answering this question again the more I think about it I'd say 5 celeb look-a-likes that closely resembles exes would be:
Jung Ho-yeon
Tyla
Lily-Rose Depp
Dua Lipa
ClairoOnly one of the women you listed is Black, and she is a light-skinned Black woman at that, f*** nigga. I'm side-eyeing you right now...
Mar 3, 2025·2 repliesyou're probably annoying af
- Mar 3, 2025emo genghis khan
you're probably annoying af
That's not supportive, f*** nigga!
- Mar 3, 2025·3 repliesTheRocket64
Circling back to answering this question again the more I think about it I'd say 5 celeb look-a-likes that closely resembles exes would be:
Jung Ho-yeon
Tyla
Lily-Rose Depp
Dua Lipa
ClairoI feel you, funny to me those women are just 7/8 outta 10 lol