@op , you can start being curious about everything. Okay, the people you've come across are annoying. Why? You feel a disdain. Why? Explore yourself and look at the situations from those lenses
It’s a funny question it’s ur life outlook u decide 😂 personally it comes across odd to me but it’s not unusual. plenty of ppl share your disdain for others
Hey op, how's the water? (great 9min video from a legend RIP, dont even have to watch just listen)

Be open minded and understand you don’t really know these people enough to hate them
This doesn’t sound that abnormal I think plenty of people only make time and enjoy being with those close few.
Just because you’re good at talking to people and social doesn’t make you an “extrovert” even if you get labeled as such. (Low key hate those terms now) I can relate to that bit about being capable but not wanting to put forth energy.
Be open minded and understand you don’t really know these people enough to hate them
nah fr, this is what the video I linked rly hits on. we make a million assumptions about a person on sight, and it warps our whole experience of reality.
you can choose to see things differently op.
I think you need to get out of your own head a bit respectfully and force yourself to interact with more people tbh. Even if part of what you’re saying can be valid thru your own experiences it’s also extreme to write off slot of people based off preconceived notions. You’ll miss a lot of experiences and interactions.
Saying this because I can relate to what you’re saying.
nah fr, this is what the video I linked rly hits on. we make a million assumptions about a person on sight, and it warps our whole experience of reality.
you can choose to see things differently op.
Yeah it’s always interesting how some people view others and don’t think they have depth lmao
Honestly though I think this is only truly unhealthy if you’re not cognizant of it. If you can be self aware enough to realize this is where you’re at, you’re not too far gone. I feel pretty similarly but you just gotta hold the two contradictory truths in tandem:
A) People are largely dysfunctional and have an innate capacity to hurt or piss people off, often without even knowing it
B) You have that same capacity and dysfunction because you’re part of that group, but you know you are capable of being decent & even “good” - others must therefore be capable of the same