Nah not self conscious but i've come to dislike sharing my life with people i never really cared about. I don’t really feel anything from them liking my pics or stories
This too
i used to post all types of mentally unstable s*** on snapchat back when i had it. that was a very dark time
95% of my followers are acquaintances/failed dating prospects
That’s prob most of/part of the reason then
How old are you @op
28 but mentally 22-23 and went through a 10 year period of being a misanthrope and having no social media presence at all
The point of social media is be social, somewhere along the way we lost that idea.
I typically swipe up on peoples stories, like them etc. if I have a mild interest in them just bc I can. Nice to have lil convos here and there if the person is like actually receptive to that kind of thing
I don’t use it as a mood board or to repost random bullshit
Just post a couple pics if I’m traveling and keep it moving
Don’t share anything on social media
You get actual respect from your peers that way, not fabricated respect
Posting on IG 1-2 times a year >>>
Other people don’t need to know what’s going on in my private life + it makes your posts hit harder
i used to post all types of mentally unstable s*** on snapchat back when i had it. that was a very dark time
Now that you are in a better place ( at least I hope so)...
Why don't you share some "mentally stable" content?
you got find those people who will be interested
Exactly.
Hey @op let me tell a little history.
Almost all of my friends are dumb.
Talk about s***.
I used to share some content that I like and talk about that with them sharing some of my perspectives in life and things like that.
So what happened is that when my friends were hanging out with some people from they circles they talk about me saying "oh. I got some friend that would love to talk to you" and they put me on with some people that now I can I have more deep and intellectual conversations.
I love my friends and how my friends are.
I can't change them.
So I started to understand that from each circle you need to talk about some things in a different way and by posting what I like it's kinda attracted people who likes the same things.
Do your thing.
You will attract good people to you and don't worry about who doesn't care about it. It's not for them.
It makes me sad. I want certain people to be interested in my life, interests and feelings but they’re just not
Never know til you post. I hardly post but I see people checking my s*** that I would’ve never expected or even people I want to see it.
At the end of the day you either put it out and keep it to yourself or share it.
Now that you are in a better place ( at least I hope so)...
Why don't you share some "mentally stable" content?
i just don’t f*** with snapchat anymore. it’s 90% strangers and 10% people i worked/went to school with
i use Instagram stories every once in a blue moon but that’s about it. too much fake s*** on social media
This is me with group chats, I’ll post a bunch of music nobody listens to and rant about it, kinda embarrassing but I’m passionate
I have good friends tho so they accept it
you always posting cool s*** tho and poppin.
Aww thanks bro
I always forget every KTT member's IG so DM me haha
if no one gives a s*** then who cares. Post it
but at the same time who gives a s***, don’t post it
Exactly.
Hey @op let me tell a little history.
Almost all of my friends are dumb.
Talk about s***.
I used to share some content that I like and talk about that with them sharing some of my perspectives in life and things like that.
So what happened is that when my friends were hanging out with some people from they circles they talk about me saying "oh. I got some friend that would love to talk to you" and they put me on with some people that now I can I have more deep and intellectual conversations.
I love my friends and how my friends are.
I can't change them.
So I started to understand that from each circle you need to talk about some things in a different way and by posting what I like it's kinda attracted people who likes the same things.
Do your thing.
You will attract good people to you and don't worry about who doesn't care about it. It's not for them.
So much effort for a post thatll end up going in through one ear and out the other
So much effort for a post thatll end up going in through one ear and out the other
That's not my problem.
I'm just trying to help
It makes me sad. I want certain people to be interested in my life, interests and feelings but they’re just not
you'd be surprised. there's people who I'd never think pay attention to my social media but they'll bring it up in person.
as long as you not posting gym stories everyday you good imo, but do you