It's honestly f***ed up that weed is marketed as something you can't be addicted to and that you don't get withdrawals from

I remember people making fun of me for even mentioning withdrawals from weed, but that s*** will f*** your stomach up and cause anxiety etc.

Might help if you have someone around you check in on how it's going. You'll feel a lot more accountable that way.

U talk to ur wife about it @op ?

If you’re struggling to quit and you’ve made this thread, that stuff about ‘it really isn’t that bad’ isn’t exactly true is it.
Remember that voice telling you that it’s not that bad isn’t you and you don’t even believe it

Yeah earlier this year i laid bare how much i struggle with it which was a huge relief.

Try to phase it out? I wonder what she said but even if she just listened that’s good. Maybe get pro help. I have an addictive personality and thankfully I don’t really like being high anymore so I probably won’t smoke anytime soon (years?)

Try to just grapple with what u told us because ur struggling with making the decisions based on ur observations; it doesn’t serve you but is conducive to a relaxing life/lifestyle.

If you write it out different ways at length and pick apart your words maybe you can get at some core assessments of the issue and have clarity in what you need to do.

I have no clue. Not good at this. But it sounds like maybe it’s not doing for you what you want it to. I can definitely relate to the sauna comments like do the drastic measures indicate a lack of self control n discipline. Have me feeling like mr jeans in my own head

Also with certain things I deal with knowing someone else dealt with it and worked it out with boundaries and therapy helps me realize things r possible n I’m more capable than I think.

Alright bro that’s all I got have a good one wish you the best.

yep

i really appreciate this comment man

yeah i think it might be time for me to just hang it up. if I'm honest with myself it just doesn't serve me any good any more. I've grown past it. but i guess i just don't want to let it go.

I'm not gonna make any firm decisions yet, just keep with the once a week smoke n sauna and see how I feel. cuz I'm feeling way better already, so it's a good way to use it for now

but i don't really wanna be the kind of person who uses d**** u know, even if they're not creating that much harm. it just ain't who i wanna be anymore i don't think

nope. smoked weed regularly for about 8 years and quit no problem. now i only smoke every blue moon

It’s really not bad but it seems you’re at the point where you’re just doing it routinely. Go to wax, you’re addicted to the act of smoking not weed. Rolling joints etc will never let you quit.

tryna get like u

10+ for me n just quit like 1,5 month ago
dont even wanna smoke no more tbh
might skip 4/20 for the first time

I'm in the same boat, s*** is unexpectedly hard to quit

last couple days (sober) been so great

feel happier and i got so much more done

seriously one of the best weekends of the year
felt like it was way longer than usual too!
i feel so much more present in my body and mind, so much more confident
sobriety is based

I never rly struggled with it except for a certain period where it was basically the only way i'd fall asleep lol

Are u having withdrawals?

Keep in mind it's always easier to actively do something than to not do something, how do you even not do something? Instead find something to do everytime you're about to go out to get weed, maybe reading a book or even something easier like watching netflix or smth as long as it's not weed

Powerful

Yeah i basically just kept myself more busy since making this thread and that's really helped.

I had a little urge Sunday in the late afternoon when i had checked most of the things off my list and was feeling a little tired but just sat with the urge and it just kinda melted away. feel like the tides are turning!

sobriety the real high after being stoned for so long fr

fr its like I got a graphics card upgrade in my brain or sumn

Powerful stuff

U getting control over ur own habits, big w

Wanted to smoke so bad today but resisted, clean for about A month now

absolutey based. proud of you man!

Still plenty of hours left in the day tbh 😵‍💫 but I’m holding out if only cause my girl and I not smoking for Ramadan lol

You got this!