I jam with my closest friend like 4 times a year
I message my other best friend everyday but we never hang out
Another friend lives in another state we see each other like twice a yr
i miss this so much
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this was everyday in my 20s now i only experience this in my dreams
im into ageplay
i’m f***ing crineeee
never had real friends
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come to think of it... me too. I've had acquaintances, but never true companionship like that. It sucks
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On Von
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come to think of it... me too. I've had acquaintances, but never true companionship like that. It sucks
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On Von
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d***ged out n tried to kms a couple of times in my late 20s, got cutoff by the majority.
Quiet but peaceful life now.
2-3 times a month
one of the us in the crew is sadly fading away, mans got a girlfriend and now we see him once a year on my bday smh…
Tbh am 29 now, for the last 3 years I didn't have any friends, don't miss it at all, can completely focus on me, am dependent on me too
And life has never been better, more liberating and stress free
one of the reasons i love nyc is the constant influx of community all around you. some of it is fleeting and surface level, social climbing. but some of it is actually genuine and sincere.
so in my mid 30’s i wouldnt say i have super close friends but im always around interesting people
Weekly to semi weekly. When it's warmer there's more things going on and may be more weekly or twice a week.
Can go some weeks not seeing anyone due to illness, travel, or other reasons
At least for my closer friends. The others more depend on if they're hanging at usual spots already or other random factors like that. Unfortunately seeing my friends that moved away depends on events or planning out trips to see them
the few i have are in a different state or internet mutuals abroad
im ok with long distance and time apart but when its perfunctory check in texts every 4-5 months that end in read receipts and people u havent spoken to or seen ina year+, the line between 'friend' and someone just becoming an acquaintance who knows u blurs a little bit
the "put urself out there" and "join several niche groups in your area" advice also feels like an annoying platitude atp that doesnt really grapple with the trending alienation/lack of social grace in made connections these days
To the second part yea I see how it’s difficult nowadays because we age most really aren’t looking for genuine friendship anymore.
It’s due to lack of time tbh
d***ged out n tried to kms a couple of times in my late 20s, got cutoff by the majority.
Quiet but peaceful life now.
Glad your still here fam
Tbh am 29 now, for the last 3 years I didn't have any friends, don't miss it at all, can completely focus on me, am dependent on me too
And life has never been better, more liberating and stress free
Kinda hurts reading this because at one point I felt the same and kinda exiled myself but I now realize I was wrong. Glad your doing good tho bro
I prob hang out w buds like twice a month and im 28. Not fully washed yet socially
Like every day, I guess I have a good social circle