Lowkey talk to some people on ktt more than my actual friends irl cause we have more in common. Wouldnt call it fake. Unless youre talking social media

What kinda dumb ass projection is this …

Yeesh

Lol

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The gay fraction acting high and mighty is comedy

I could also present my anecdotes of every gay dude I know having a shaky circle of friends with too much unnecessary drama involved but I don’t cuz I realize it has nothing to do with it.

@bloom been walking a fine line this month

When was the last time you comforted someone you don't wanna sleep with?

This part triggered a lot of you niggas it seems

Some people say they can’t connect with people, is that really true or do they just put themselves down and think that they are soooo different from everyone else? Or do they have an extreme ego to believe everyone is just not at their wit?

@Wisdom also right. This is definitely true for majority of yall niggas in the life sxn that do that tired “no one understands me so ima turn this sxn into my oversharing diary but push back once anyone questions me” gimmick.

and relationships have become increasingly superficial and commodified. why would a person who experiences these things feel comfortable sharing with others?

They have @Tkken ? Last I checked we lived in a great big world with endless opportunities for growth snd change IRL and OL.

But lemme guess, because of statistics in the insert source prove that relationships and friendships have blah blah blah. That’s another thing niggas (not even just ktt, I see this on twitter and IG) like to do. Yall take the worst scenario you see/hear and internalize that and generalize that whole group of people with these self-defeatist echo chambers of self loathing and superiority complex instead of trying to be the change yall wanna see.

KTT could do regional meetups right now. I know at least 3 ppl on here’s IGs (and vice versa)

I know at least…6 ppl that I would not mind meeting up with and kicking it with or just voice chattin on the phone/computer with. Why do we hesitate? (Safety reasons is understandable, the average of this forum is at least mid 20s, I’d make an educated guess).

From the article:

The COVID-19 pandemic is the most obvious culprit in the national friendship decline, but broader structural forces may be playing a more important role. First, Americans are marrying later than ever and are more geographically mobile than in the past—two trends that are strongly associated with increasing rates of self-reported social isolation and feelings of loneliness.1 Second, American parents are spending twice as much time with their children compared to previous generations, crowding out other types of relationships, including friendships.2 Finally, Americans are working longer hours and traveling more for work, which may come at the cost of maintaining and developing friendships.3 In fact, perhaps reflecting its central place in the hierarchy of American social life, Americans are now more likely to make friends at work than any other way—including at school, in their neighborhood, at their place of worship, or even through existing friends.

That's just capitalism at work baybee

relationships are not more superficial and commodified i know 3 ppls [brand name]

Y’all really in every 2nd thread dissing straight cis men dog

“Yall”

I ain gay my mans. But nice attempt to profile.

People in general are having major struggles developing real bonds atm and the problems are wide ranging

You still on niggas necks for being cis and straight.

No I aint. You just feel a way and don’t know how to handle simple critique lol.

I aint know me saying American men meant “straight and cis” either btw.

You’re implicating straight cis men in your first paragraph bro 😂

“I didn’t get off work from my second job til 11, and I have to be at my first job at 6.”

You’re implying that. Gay niggas can be toxic/hypermasculine too my nigga lmfao.

Once again, somebody projecting.

u said Without it being deemed “gay” or “feminine”

What’s the probability of this applying to queer men vs straight cis men?b real for a second 😂

this is interesting conversation that i will not be adding any personal thoughts to.