just found out a friend of over 6 years sa'd a girl and i'm completely heart broken dude. obviously the biggest of condolensces to the victim. but cant lie this literally stung like hell, first time i hear news like this involving somebody i know and liked. sounds cliche but genuinely wouldnt have expected it out of him. like out of all the dudes i know he woulda been the last one i suspected genuinely.
i thought id be desenticized over this type of stuff (ridiculous ik) after being bombarded with news about all these SA cases of big n public figures, but the amount of pain and betrayal i feel rn is insane im so so upset at this s***
obviously cutting him off, i have absolute 0 tolerance for sexual violence and i feel almost guilty over feeling hurt that im losing a friend when the damage thats been done is much more grave than a loss of a friendship. but its crazy what emotional attachment can do to your thought process.
has this ever happened to you? i hope it didnt
I have a friend who was accused of grooming because he was the lead of a rockband and got caught texting 17 year old. Tbh no where near as extreme as what ur going thru, this situation was mostly speculation i mean as a public figure i dont assume ur having sexual convos when talking to fans but who knows
Its rough cus this is literally my best friend since i was 5 and i still dont know how to feel about it
Pretty much everyone i know cut him off but i still talk to him occasionally
Anyways sorry to hear about that i dont think i could be friends with someone who physically sexually assaulted someone even if we are close
Instead of cutting him off you should cut his d*** off
·1 replyhasn't happened to me but i want you to know its okay to mourn the relationship u had with the guy you considered a good friend
you know what he did was wrong and support the victim, that's what matters
No but shoutout op for doing the right thing
·1 replyOne Summer I had a friend staying with me cuz he took up an internship that was relatively close to where I lived. One night he went out for a Tinder hookup and when he came back he started telling me this story about the girl that didn’t really sit right with me. As anonymous as all of this is, I’m still not gonna relay the story. It wasn’t anything especially abhorrent but it did make me think he was likely… not normal around women. Never really saw him the same way, and while I didn’t immediately cut him off, we did eventually lose touch. Occasional checks on his social media pages in the years since confirm that he is definitely weird around and about women.
I should also point out that he was involved with this girl from where he was interning, so if nothing else, he cheated on her.
- relapsed bisexual
hasn't happened to me but i want you to know its okay to mourn the relationship u had with the guy you considered a good friend
you know what he did was wrong and support the victim, that's what matters
·✦ANTIOne Summer I had a friend staying with me cuz he took up an internship that was relatively close to where I lived. One night he went out for a Tinder hookup and when he came back he started telling me this story about the girl that didn’t really sit right with me. As anonymous as all of this is, I’m still not gonna relay the story. It wasn’t anything especially abhorrent but it did make me think he was likely… not normal around women. Never really saw him the same way, and while I didn’t immediately cut him off, we did eventually lose touch. Occasional checks on his social media pages in the years since confirm that he is definitely weird around and about women.
I should also point out that he was involved with this girl from where he was interning, so if nothing else, he cheated on her.
Way to blue balls us
